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Post by Chal™ on Apr 2, 2012 12:25:13 GMT -5
Went home this weekend to move. Got everything settled in my new spot. Yesterday, as I was preparing to hit the highway (yet again), I found a piece of paper folded up in my drawer. Something was telling me to open the paper. So i did. I found this:     ;D  * the pictures are suppose to be me driving to Louisiana, working, then driving back to Memphis over and over again. Yes. I cried. |
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on Apr 2, 2012 16:32:53 GMT -5
Awwwww....
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Apr 5, 2012 8:44:21 GMT -5
How you like your new city/n ew place?
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Post by Chal™ on Apr 5, 2012 9:27:43 GMT -5
LOL! I don't have a new city. Just a new place. Yes, I'm working in the Boot, but I'm maintaining my residence in Tennessee. Here in the Boot, the company pays for my suite. As for the new place, do I like it? I think so. I moved in Friday and was back on the road Sunday. lol
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Post by Coach on Apr 5, 2012 9:42:57 GMT -5
You down there with the Who Dat nation??
Earned any beads yet?? I kid, kid [not really though]
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Post by Chal™ on Apr 5, 2012 10:28:02 GMT -5
lol @ not really though.
Chally does not have to "earn" beads. Chally receives them on the strength of her good nature and charm.
#ilied
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Jun 1, 2012 15:38:03 GMT -5
You ain't got nutin to share wit us common folk....?
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Post by Chal™ on Jun 14, 2012 9:48:44 GMT -5
Last night, Baby initiated a FB chat with me (that's the only contact he has since my numbers have changed and I've moved twice since the break up). In this chat, he felt the need to inform me that he was getting married this summer.
Me: Ok. *pause*
He totally missed the sarcastic nature of the ok and pause (that's why I prefer verbal communication).
Him: Are you feeling some kinda way about me marrying her?
Me: Why would I feel any kind of way because you're getting married?
Him: Well, because I'm making such a huge commitment so soon after we split.
Me: First of all, M******, we split in 2010, and second I could care less.
Him: Yea, I think I'm actually gonna make it down the aisle with this one.
Me: Ok. *pause*
Him: Well, I thought you should know.
Me: And why did you think I should know this?
Him: Well, because we didn't make it. So I know that you may be feeling some kind of way about it.
Me: It's becoming very obvious that you want me to feel some kind of way about this. As a matter of fact, I'll go even further and say that you NEED me to feel some kind of way about it. I know you. There's a reason you're bugging me at 2 in the morning. So spit it out, M******. What is it you want to tell me?
Him: I just wanted you to know that I know why she and I will make it when you and I didn't.
Me: We didn't make it because I left.
Him: Yea, you did. But I've been trying to make it up to you ever since. You won't give me a chance.
Me: Won't or wouldn't? You're slipping into present tense.
Him: You know what I mean.
Me: Yes. I know exactly what you mean. Especially considering that just 6 months ago you wanted to sacrifice your weekends driving me back and forth to LA, 5 months ago you were making plans to relocate to LA with me if I decided to stay and give you the go ahead. 4 months ago, you wanted to handle all of my moving tasks and fees, and 3 months ago you were meeting me in Vicksburg for a shopping spree. And let's not bring up 2 weeks ago when you poured your heart out in my inbox about how much you've changed and how you want things to be back like it was. And now you're getting married. Congratulations. I'm happy for you. Perhaps now you will leave me alone.
Him: See, it's that kinda bullsh*t that I don't miss. I know me and her will make it because she's the opposite of you.
Me: Oh, so she's completely submissive?
Him: And obedient.
Me: Yea. Make this the last time you contact me. Ever.
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Post by 123Diva on Jun 14, 2012 10:48:05 GMT -5
Oh my gosh. Sounds like yo dodged a bullet Chal!
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Post by 123Diva on Jun 14, 2012 10:48:55 GMT -5
SMDH at men who still try to woo another woman while making a lifelong commitment to the next. I call BS. Tons of it.
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Post by Chal™ on Jun 14, 2012 11:41:59 GMT -5
I dodged the HAYLE out of that bullet. No relationship is perfect, I know. Our relationship was GREAT up until the point when I agreed to marry him. I guess that when the real Baby started slipping out. He was seriously on some other ish. Glad I got out when I did.
As for him still wooing me... I don't even believe it's genuine. Baby has developed some kind of complex because I'm the first one who ever left him. He's usually the one walking away. I know this because he always brought it up whenever we communicated after the break up. Maybe in the beginning he really wanted to get back together, but I believe that after a while, it became a challenge to him. He can be very persistent if it means he wins.
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on Jun 14, 2012 12:28:57 GMT -5
Oh wow...I hope a bird poops on his head
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Post by Chal™ on Jun 24, 2012 2:57:39 GMT -5
Still recuperating for my cousins wedding this weekend. It was definitely an event. Straight coonery! Remember this? I'm almost positive that part two will be in effect in 2 weeks. Sigh.... |
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Post by Chal™ on Aug 18, 2012 9:29:21 GMT -5
Today was my wedding day...
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Post by Chal™ on Oct 19, 2012 19:47:30 GMT -5
I've put two years into loving this dude, and today he said it to me for the first time.
My heart is melting.
Oh, btw, I'm talking about the baby. lol
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Post by Chal™ on Jun 7, 2021 19:16:49 GMT -5
Whew, chile!😂
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;D 
