Inside the Minds of Women

[Bunny Hop]

Okay fellas here it is. Got Questions? We got answers. Real ones. Straight Patron no lime. Pose your questions and either myself or one of the ladies on the board will answer. Annddd Actionnn!


(If any of the ladies have a better title let me know...I'm not having a witty moment and can't think of anything else so I copied, LOL).

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[Bathroom Model]

Mines?? lol

had to do it.

[Chal™]

i was gonna, Glam. I was gonna.

but it fit, because everything is "ours" lol


Aieght, fellas. I'm ain't skurred. Run 'em!


*modified to show correct title

[InMyWorld]

i think they are scared lol

[Chal™]

i told em they didn't really wanna know. lol

[QueenOH]

My mind is a little loopy right now

[Coach]

Why do women think men are so hard to understand??

[Chal™]

Because men are not verbal creatures. Rather than saying what's on your mind or telling us what's wrong, you make some noncommital grunt noises and expects us to know what it means.

[QueenOH]

Jun 14, 2010 14:26:34 GMT -5 Coach said:

Why do women think men are so hard to understand??

I don't know your major motivations seem to be food, fun, and sex

[DamieQue™]

1). Why would you bring your problems to us to merely listen to them?

1a). Why not go to your girlfriends if you just want someone to listen to you vent? (Serious question, they have more training in this area, and they actually enjoy it, why substitute us in this role?)

2). Why do you ask us, "if we miss you"? If you have to prompt us to get us to say it - doesn't that make it less genuine?

3). Are you angry with the black man in general?

3a). Do you feel he understands your struggle?

3b). Do you feel you understand his?

4). Gay male friends - what's the deal? If you don't think they're honorary women - why do you treat them like they are?

5). Can you really not tell that the toilet seat's up before you sit down? Seriously?

6). What's it like to give birth (for those of you who have)?

7). When you all do cheat in a relationship - why do you do it?

8). What phrase do you hate to hear most from a man?

9). Is there a difference to you between a man that's had alot of sexual exploits with women that no one really knows about and a man who has had the same # of exploits, but those exploits are known?

9a). How does (if at all) that affect your view of him?

10). Have you ever hit/mushed/pushed/shoved your man in anger?

I guess that's enough for now. Have at it ladies. Get crunk.

[Chal™]

What's with the 2 and 3 part questions? lol

i shall return

[QueenOH]

Damie's 1) we need to feel like the man in our life is on our side (like a team) our girls are not sleeping with us

[QueenOH]

2) Because we know that you are less likely to say how you feel without prompting

3) If Blac makes me angry then I'm angry with all of you

[InMyWorld]

Jun 14, 2010 14:26:34 GMT -5 Coach said:

Why do women think men are so hard to understand??

I actually think yall are quite simple IMO

[QueenOH]

4) all my gay male friends act are not extra like the men you see on TV so I don't know. I don't treat them like they are women because they are men.

5) Not if I'm not looking for it in the middle of the night and I haven't even turned on the light

[InMyWorld]

Damie's #10: I have always said that a man can never make me mad enough to where i just want to hit him because i dont want no man(nobody really) putting their hands on me. but i just recently almost got to that point where i wanted to hit somebody that i swore if i saw him i would hit him....glad i didnt see him

[QueenOH]

6) If is a long horrible pain filled process. You are scared, tired, sweaty, hungry, dirty and in pain, and more pain, with extra pain with a side helping of pain.

[QueenOH]

7) Power, attention, thrill ...etc

[QueenOH]

8) "Are you PMSing is that why you are like this?" because we have no other excuse in the world to be mad other than PMS

[InMyWorld]

#5: i used to didnt look especially like queen said if its in the middle of the night, or rushing, etc. until recently when my sister's boyfriend used to leave pee on the toilet and didnt clean it. i think he is the most disgusting man i have came in contact with from just that experience...uugghh

[QueenOH]

9) No just the first guy has more discretion and the second guy is a slut

[Julie Art]

Damie's 10: I have with this one ex. He knew how to push my buttons and would do it too. Majority of the time I feel he pushed them for his entertainment. I never hit him with my fist but I was quick to throw something at him. He was the only one that brought that out of me. Needless to say we aren't together cause that wasn't healthy.

[InMyWorld]

#8: "What you thinking about?" but you really dont wanna know

[QueenOH]

I hit my ex after we broke up

[Chal™]

1). Why would you bring your problems to us to merely listen to them?

Why not? What’s wrong with you listening to us venting about our problems ever once in a while? Lol Actually, it feels good to know that your man has your back.

1a). Why not go to your girlfriends if you just want someone to listen to you vent? (Serious question, they have more training in this area, and they actually enjoy it, why substitute us in this role?)

There are some things you don’t want to go to your girlfriends about because they are just as emotional as you are. When you need a rational ear, an emotional chick should not be your Dr. Phil.

2). Why do you ask us, "if we miss you"? If you have to prompt us to get us to say it - doesn't that make it less genuine?

Because some of you have to be “encouraged” to speak your minds. There are guys who think it’s weak to just say, “Hey baby, I missed you.” It’s a way for you to save face.

3). Are you angry with the black man in general?

Angry? No. Disappointed? Yes.

3a). Do you feel he understands your struggle?

The black man will NEVER understand a woman’s struggle.

3b). Do you feel you understand his?

The black woman will NEVER understand a black man’s struggle. We can’t walk in each other’s shoes. The only thing we could and SHOULD do is be there to support and uplift one another. Unfortunately, we all don't.

4). Gay male friends - what's the deal? If you don't think they're honorary women - why do you treat them like they are?

I don’t treat gay men like women. I don’t call them “Girl” “Honey” “Chile” none of that. I don’t think I treat them any certain way in particular. I just treat him like a person.

5). Can you really not tell that the toilet seat's up before you sit down? Seriously?

It’s 3 AM, I wake up out of my sleep cause I gotta pee. I shuffle in my sleep to the bathroom and sit. Now, I’m in no danger of falling in, but I DO NOT want to land on that cold azz rim were you probably ended up pissing all over because that big hole in the middle is SOOOOOO hard to hit. Just let the seat down, please.

6). What's it like to give birth (for those of you who have)?

Don’t know, but I heard it’s something terrible without that shot.

7). When you all do cheat in a relationship - why do you do it?

Physical cheating, I’ve never done. Emotional, perhaps. Why? I can’t really say why it happens. Maybe the dynamics in our relationship have changed and someone else has caught (and possibly held) my attention. If that happens, I reevaluate us, and if necessary, I leave.

8). What phrase do you hate to hear most from a man?

I can only choose one?

9). Is there a difference to you between a man that's had a lot of sexual exploits with women that no one really knows about and a man who has had the same # of exploits, but those exploits are known?

No. Either way, he’s been doing a whole lot of ef’ing

9a). How does (if at all) that affect your view of him?

I’d give him the side eye, but you can’t really judge a man (OR A WOMAN) by his (or her) sexual exploits.

10). Have you ever hit/mushed/pushed/shoved your man in anger?

It was retaliation.

[FatalDST]

1). Why would you bring your problems to us to merely listen to them? Because sometimes you just need to vent...

1a). Why not go to your girlfriends if you just want someone to listen to you vent? (Serious question, they have more training in this area, and they actually enjoy it, why substitute us in this role?) Because you have different comfort levels and get different feedback from different people...sometimes I dont need someone who will just side with me, I need someone to tell me the truth.. or vise versa.. no talking, just hold me... tell me I aint crazy!

2). Why do you ask us, "if we miss you"? If you have to prompt us to get us to say it - doesn't that make it less genuine? Yes, but as another poster stated, Chal I believe.. you all dont talk, arent expressive.. some of you would never say it even though you do...

3). Are you angry with the black man in general? Sometimes, because and overwhelming majority of you are trifling... not to mention, you all are always proving the 2520's right!

3a). Do you feel he understands your struggle? sometimes, not all the time.. depends on what it is..

3b). Do you feel you understand his? same answer

4). Gay male friends - what's the deal? If you don't think they're honorary women - why do you treat them like they are? not all gay men are flaming, and we dont treat them all like they are.. the ones who are you treat them like that because that's who they are.. same goes for straight people...like you do anyone else

5). Can you really not tell that the toilet seat's up before you sit down? Seriously? not if the light is off.. and well, sometimes we just dont pay attn, we just trying not to piss on ourselves!

6). What's it like to give birth (for those of you who have)? clarify... do you mean to actually push out of the cookie or just having a baby period...

7). When you all do cheat in a relationship - why do you do it? cause he's lacking somewhere! usually its emotionally though... and we are feeling neglected in the relationship..

8). What phrase do you hate to hear most from a man? *still thinking*

9). Is there a difference to you between a man that's had alot of sexual exploits with women that no one really knows about and a man who has had the same # of exploits, but those exploits are known?
Yes, I dont want people thinking Im just your new flavor of the month....

9a). How does (if at all) that affect your view of him? he's a KNOWN male whore... how can you take a man like that seriously...

10). Have you ever hit/mushed/pushed/shoved your man in anger? yep

I guess that's enough for now. Have at it ladies. Get crunk. [/color]

[Coach]

Wait, yall the only ones that get up in the middle of the night to pee?? lol

[DamieQue™]

Jun 14, 2010 15:36:49 GMT -5 Coach said:

Wait, yall the only ones that get up in the middle of the night to pee?? lol

I know Coach, I know... but the point isn't necessarily to debate the answers... it's just to hear them. LOL.

[DamieQue™]

@magic Booty: I want you to explain the whole deal - what's it like? What are you thinking? What are you feeling? etc. Just give it to me from your view.

[DamieQue™]

1). When you ask us our opinion - aren't you really just asking for us to validate what your position is or do you really want to hear our opinion?

2). Do you all admit when you're wrong?

3). If you admit when you are wrong - does it take coaxing - or will you admit it without being prompted?

4). Do you trust your girls around your men? If not - who do you trust least, your man, or your girls?

5). If your man was losing a fight, would you hit the other dude with a foreign object to help him out?

6). Do you expect a man to defend your honor? If you are disrespected do you expect him to speak up and demand a redress on your behalf?

7). How do you show a man that you respect him?

8). In your opinion are men appreciative or do they take much of what women do for granted?

9). Name 3 Things you wish all men would learn about women?

10). Name the Top 5 things that men do that annoy you the most (include ties if you must)

p.s. is 10 questions too much? I'm just trying to get this thread rolling.