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Post by LejaOMG on Aug 12, 2009 14:28:04 GMT -5
The wedding was beautiful; refer to my FB page for pics.
The bachelorette party was STUPID fun. My sinuses were attacking me the whole time, but God is good. We had a fantastic time doing our scavenger hunt. We had to take a picture with several "guys" including:
1. too much jewelry guy
2. skinny jeans Guy
3. colored contacts guy
4. Someone with a gold tooth
5. “Old man in the club”
6. overdressed guy
7. “let me holla” guy
8. foreign guy
9. really short guy
10. receding hairline/bald-spot guy
11. married guy
12. drunk guy
13. overbearing cologne guy
Pics of that are on FB as well...
we got kicked out of a bar, hung out with random bikers and got on the their bikes (wearing miniskirts), called over a balloon shape artist to make us various inappropriate figures, talked to some random guys who shared their pizza with us, got in 3 cabs and went home
then part 3 of the evening: THE SLEEPOVER!
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Post by BKupInHere on Aug 12, 2009 15:05:32 GMT -5
I'm glad you guys had a great time. I will be stealing that scavenger hunt idea!
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Post by nsync on Aug 12, 2009 16:47:10 GMT -5
YAY! That's what I like to hear.  |
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Post by LejaOMG on Aug 17, 2009 15:05:03 GMT -5
Salty + Sweet = yummy!
Cheetos and a Snickers. Where do they come up with this stuff?
In other news, in celebration of a fantastic first day of school/work and a seamless transition to summer being over, I want to have a delicious dinner (which I will not have cooked myself). I'mma need some funky fresh wine, too.
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Post by LejaOMG on Aug 17, 2009 15:12:24 GMT -5
oh and shout out to me for taking out my own weave last night. That crap was the worst. I'm layin offa them for a good long while. My curls couldn't wait to bust freeee! now they're plump and happy and sitting controlled-ly on top of my head :-) Despite my just swearing off weaves, I see they have one that's the same texture (thereabouts) as my hair. I wonder if I should get it and give my hair a break. lanikshair.com/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=22&products_id=88IDK where I'm gettin $200 to buy that expensive crap (and then $150 to have it installed). To turn around and look exactly the same? Man nevermind. Forget I mentioned it. |
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Post by LejaOMG on Aug 17, 2009 15:24:57 GMT -5
I enjoy the term "upwardly mobile." I have no idea what it means, but nearly everyone fancies themselves upwardly mobile these days. I think it has something to do with makin it out the hood; or maybe it means on track to get a promotion at work. IDK. But I think I shall run with it.
I think I will begin to refer to myself as a Y.U.M.M.Y instead of a yuppy or buppy. Yes. Young upwardly mobile.
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Post by LejaOMG on Aug 17, 2009 17:48:32 GMT -5
Yo. Ya'll are NOT gonna believe the "conversation" I just had. At all.
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Post by BKupInHere on Aug 17, 2009 18:00:39 GMT -5
Yo. Ya'll are NOT gonna believe the "conversation" I just had. At all. Go ahead. Share! By the way: I loved the dresses your LS chose for her bridesmaids. Now you should hem it and wear is as a cute, short & strapless flirty dress. |
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Post by LejaOMG on Aug 17, 2009 18:27:55 GMT -5
thanks. I liked the dress too; I'mma keep it long and wear it to a gala later this year
re: the convo---in short, looks like I lost a IRL friend over some OOA ish. WTF.
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Post by BKupInHere on Aug 17, 2009 18:30:27 GMT -5
You've gotta be kidding me!
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Post by LejaOMG on Aug 17, 2009 18:54:24 GMT -5
real talk yo; deleted from FB and errythang *shrugs*
the wack ish is, I'm sure he's reading this now (or will be at some point) so...WTF. Delete me, then read a thread named after me. M'eh.
IDK...the lameazzness of it all is just BLOWING me. Not so much the effect, but the method. Burning bridges is SO last year!
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Post by LogAKAlly <3'n Keef on Aug 17, 2009 18:55:00 GMT -5
The wedding was beautiful; refer to my FB page for pics. The bachelorette party was STUPID fun. My sinuses were attacking me the whole time, but God is good. We had a fantastic time doing our scavenger hunt. We had to take a picture with several "guys" including: 1. too much jewelry guy 2. skinny jeans Guy 3. colored contacts guy 4. Someone with a gold tooth 5. “Old man in the club” 6. overdressed guy 7. “let me holla” guy 8. foreign guy 9. really short guy 10. receding hairline/bald-spot guy 11. married guy 12. drunk guy 13. overbearing cologne guy Pics of that are on FB as well... we got kicked out of a bar, hung out with random bikers and got on the their bikes (wearing miniskirts), called over a balloon shape artist to make us various inappropriate figures, talked to some random guys who shared their pizza with us, got in 3 cabs and went home then part 3 of the evening: THE SLEEPOVER! DAYUM THAT SOUNDS LIKE WAY TOO MUCH FUN - the sorta fun I need to be having - I am stealing this idea - BELIEVE YOU ME and - annnnnnnnndddd I'm SOOOO gonna front like I made it up!! |
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Post by LogAKAlly <3'n Keef on Aug 17, 2009 18:56:12 GMT -5
thanks. I liked the dress too; I'mma keep it long and wear it to a gala later this year re: the convo---in short, looks like I lost a IRL friend over some OOA ish. WTF. Word...be there done that - bought land and rented it out.  |
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Post by LejaOMG on Aug 17, 2009 18:57:04 GMT -5
speaking of which, i'll be GLAD when you get on Yahoo
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Post by LogAKAlly <3'n Keef on Aug 17, 2009 18:57:15 GMT -5
real talk yo; deleted from FB and errythang *shrugs* the wack ish is, I'm sure he's reading this now (or will be at some point) so...WTF. Delete me, then read a thread named after me. M'eh. Wait...NO...noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. NO. No. Hell No!  |
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Post by LogAKAlly <3'n Keef on Aug 17, 2009 18:58:24 GMT -5
speaking of which, i'll be GLAD when you get on Yahoo How bout we just bypass that and you call me. |
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Post by LejaOMG on Aug 17, 2009 18:59:09 GMT -5
were that possible, i would. But it's not. So I can't. But it's cool. Be like that.
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Post by DamieQue™ on Aug 17, 2009 19:37:02 GMT -5
Yeah I need to talk about this (not getting deleted from FB by OOers over OO ish) but getting deleted in general. Also Leja either call me or PM or text me... choose whichever method fits you best but hablas conmigo. You comprendes?
*Spits chaw tabacca on floor of Leja's thread*
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Post by LogAKAlly <3'n Keef on Aug 17, 2009 20:38:43 GMT -5
So, Damie...I was on the phone w/Leja and relaying your messge and I said/pronounced "habla" with the "H" - Leja: How long you live in Cali?  LMAO!!! |
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Post by LogAKAlly <3'n Keef on Aug 17, 2009 20:41:21 GMT -5
were that possible, i would. But it's not. So I can't. But it's cool. Be like that. For the record...not only did I hop on YIM - my status says "Pay me no mind I am here for Leja" |
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Post by LejaOMG on Aug 18, 2009 8:21:39 GMT -5
Ok, the security jawn @ my job asked me "are you tired?" as soon as I greeted her. WTH? I'm actually rested than a mug. I mean my eyes may be a lil on the puffy side 'cause I been laughin and snottin or whatever, but I'm sure I don't look "tired."
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Post by LejaOMG on Sept 28, 2009 14:42:16 GMT -5
So much on my mind...
I had a FANTASTIC couple weeks, but all good things must come to an end.
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Post by LejaOMG on Sept 28, 2009 14:51:57 GMT -5
Mind: Everywhere. No really. On some Pulp-Fiction type ish. Of all the emotions I have going on pursuant to "the break-up," I'm not sad at all. Is that weird? I haven't wanted to talk about it. Most people will either judge me or won't understand. And that's ok.
Body: I mean, what's so wrong with being a cute fat girl? Barring a horrible accident, my face will continue to be what it is. Might have to start getting my clothes specially made, but I'd still get to eat everything I want and never have to work out. I may look into this.
Spirit: Finally, I feel free enough to connect with God the way I really want to. My faith is reinforced because I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I heard the voice of God and obeyed it. Obedience hurts sometimes tho, geez.
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Post by LejaOMG on Oct 5, 2009 14:02:29 GMT -5
I need some more knock off bags. I saw a really cute one in Old Navy today for like $36, and I kinda refuse to spend that much on a bag that isn't at least pretending to be name-brand.
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Post by LejaOMG on Oct 6, 2009 13:54:32 GMT -5
So he called me. At work. To ask me: have you tried to call me lately? In fact, I had. A month or so ago. Left a message on his birthday. He informs me: [My fiance] and I had some issues and I had to change my number. "How's that?" I ask.
she thinks there's something going on between us, that we're romantically involved
Well, does she know about the things that have indeed gone on between us in the past? Can you really be mad at her for being suspicious? Women have intuition, she probably knows all about our undergraduate escapades and if she doesn't, she can at least sense that information is being withheld...in which case, what is she to do but invent elaborate scenarios and make herself sick with worry? And, anyway, you have to do what's best for your family. If your future wife wants for us not to have any further contact, what legitimate reason do have to deny her request? Are you going to risk family discord because of your loyalty to...me? Me?! Not even a full-fledged ex-girlfriend?
well, i have a lot of things i need to work through before we get married...namely with you
Yeah, you might want to take steps toward getting over that. If your woman is not above checking your phone records and making you change your number (about which I refuse to judge, because I have no idea what it's like to be in her position), I don't see that you will ever find a convenient time and place to have whatever conversation is burning a hole in your heart. You've already promised yourself to her. I love you, but it is obviously over. We both need to move on, and we don't need to move on... together.
she figured out that we met up the last time you were in town. she said she called you to 'talk' but you didn't answer. she wants to get some things off her chest
I. wish. she. would. No really, I respect her from a distance, but the heffa better not call me. I don't know her, neither do I wish to. I owe her nothing. Not even, for the sake of her peace, to gracefully fade into the distance (though I shall). I, for one, am single. Been that way for quite some time. I go where I please, whenever I want, with whomever I want. I answer only to God. For this reason, I defer to you and your conscience when it comes to our dealings. You know your own situation better than I. I understand why you didn't tell her the truth about our link-up, it doesn't seem she would have been able to handle it. What I don't understand...is why you arranged the rendezvous in the first place. You two obviously have some kind of understanding which you violated. Call me, for what? No really, tell that girl this ain't what she wants.
but we're not doing anything...nothing has happened that she need be worried about
We haven't done anything. True. But why? Not because it couldn't or wouldn't happen, but just because it hasn't happened. Were the right (or wrong) set of circumstances to present themselves, we'd revert to old times in a heartbeat. I know it. You know it. Your girl knows it. Another piece of knowledge the three off us share: You're frustrated that you let me get away, and you don't actually want to marry her.
I'm handling my business. I suggest you handle yours. The rest...is up to God.
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Post by 123Diva on Oct 6, 2009 14:13:52 GMT -5
Uhhh, Leja, you got a whole lot going on.
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Post by LejaOMG on Oct 6, 2009 16:04:15 GMT -5
Don't judge me!
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Post by DamieQue™ on Oct 6, 2009 17:03:51 GMT -5
*judges... harshly*
(actually though that was deep... the phone call)
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Post by T-Rex91 on Oct 7, 2009 6:49:37 GMT -5
Leja, he's trifling. Testing you to see if you had called and realized his number had changed? Weak.
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Post by LejaOMG on Oct 7, 2009 7:55:28 GMT -5
LoL @ 91. Whole situation is a little on the trifling side. I'm glad that I don't feel drawn to the drama. Interestingly enough, I wrote him off quite a while before this convo ever took place.
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