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Post by Sapphire on Jun 12, 2010 20:48:28 GMT -5
Thanks Vudu. Good answers. And no I don't think it's wrong to be homophobic, I just think the ass pat is a little suspect and it seem like a guy was homophobic he'd think it was too. Being against homosexuality isn't homophobia though. Phobia equates to fear. Again its something created by that community to stop people from speaking out against it. Like if I speak out against pedophiles do I have a pedophilephobia? on to the next questions! lol The question wasn't really related to homophobia as a problem... so that was a poor word choice on my part, since folks are getting hung up on that issue. So I should have phrased my question better... What I should have asked was why isn't it gay for a heterosexual man to pat another man on the ass. Why isn't that a man law violation. What happend to the good ol back pat? LOL that's what I meant. I never understood that. Like when it happend the very first time in history didn't the other dude look like wtf you doin'mayne?! But whatevs.  |
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Post by Sapphire on Jun 12, 2010 20:49:42 GMT -5
New questions: 1. So if men and women can't be friends, what are they... interests, side hoes, booty calls in the making? If she's unattractive could they be friends? If they never get it in are they faux friends? 2. If you don't want her why can't he have her? 3. Why do men act like they own the remote control? 4. Why are you still playing video games? 5. If you think it tastes so good why ain’t chu drankin’ it? 6. Why do you always hold the elevator door open for a female when the door opens automatically without you? Why don’t you notice the females you’re blocking from getting to the door while you’re holding it? 5. Ummm... what fluids are we talking about here?  LOL. I was just funnin'  |
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Post by BKupInHere on Jun 12, 2010 21:42:57 GMT -5
:::lurk part 4:::
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Post by Vudu_Prince on Jun 12, 2010 22:02:37 GMT -5
Being against homosexuality isn't homophobia though. Phobia equates to fear. Again its something created by that community to stop people from speaking out against it. Like if I speak out against pedophiles do I have a pedophilephobia? on to the next questions! lol The question wasn't really related to homophobia as a problem... so that was a poor word choice on my part, since folks are getting hung up on that issue. So I should have phrased my question better... What I should have asked was why isn't it gay for a heterosexual man to pat another man on the ass. Why isn't that a man law violation. What happend to the good ol back pat? LOL that's what I meant. I never understood that. Like when it happend the very first time in history didn't the other dude look like wtf you doin'mayne?! But whatevs. lol. I never really looked at it that way but as damie said is it also questionable when a QB gets under the center? I dunno shrugs... Off to answer the other questions |
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Post by NOLA Darling on Jun 12, 2010 22:10:37 GMT -5
:)This is about to be my new favorite thread...
1. Why do guys talk about they want a soulmate, a partner then proceed to date the dumbest girl they can find with a phat ass?
2. Why are guys shallow?
3. What is the fascination with breasts?
4. Do guys really favor Light skin over Dark skin?
5. Do guys like hair?
6. Why is it ok for men to cheat but not women?
7. If women are assertive and sure and don't take BS, why do you consider her a bitch?
8. Is confidence the ultimate turn-on?
Just curious...
Just curious
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Post by Chal™ on Jun 12, 2010 22:23:13 GMT -5
Yo, Damie......
3. What is the fascination with breasts? ...Steel got a question for ya!!! L O L ! ! ! |
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Post by Vudu_Prince on Jun 12, 2010 22:29:17 GMT -5
1. What is with men that hold the door open for their women but will let it slam in the faces of other women? Why do something like that? 2. Why does it take yall forever to replace things like socks, t shirts, boxers, underwear, etc? 3. Do men really not notice the stuff females (excluding girlfriends) leave around their place? I've seen a lot of stuff sitting at my guy friends' places and they have no clue it's there but I spotted it within 5 minutes of being in the room, LOL. 4. Why won't yall admit to any cheating or messing off after the relationship or relations are over? 1. We goofy sometimes but the main thing is brothers trying to be polite to his lady. Like what if the next chick coming through says "thank you" while making this face >>>  then next thing yanno you looking like this >>  Hells no now our evening is ruined. Umm Umm 2. We waiting for you to notice it and buy it for us. Or atleast take our card and go to walmart and buy it for us. Naw me personally I love getting new socks t-shirts etc. Shrugs.. 3. Funny you said that. Yeah stuff be obvious and we dont see it sometimes. My daughter was like " Dad whose shades are those on top of your TV?" Me " What shades?" Her " These shades" Me "  awkwardddd" Like she had the shades in her hand acting like they were upstairs.. Thats a veteran move already... sheesh 4. Waitttt like yall do? Chit goes both ways. lol |
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Post by Chal™ on Jun 13, 2010 3:50:21 GMT -5
LMBO @ #1 smh @ #2 lol @ #3  @ #4 lol |
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Post by 123Diva on Jun 13, 2010 9:33:54 GMT -5
Good thread.
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Post by Bunny Hop on Jun 13, 2010 11:04:02 GMT -5
1. Interesting....I never thought of it that way. I just figured they were half assed/fake gentleman. 2. LOL 3. LOL. I just never understood it. I'd walk in and say "ummm you see those bobby pins over there?" or "who's Bath and Body Works is in your other bathroom?" The guy would stand there looking totally clueless. I told them to watch out because women notice...we may not say anything but we know. 4. Booooo. I've only ever known men to do this...then again I only date men so my experience is clearly limited, LOL. |
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Post by Coldfront06 on Jun 13, 2010 14:12:28 GMT -5
:)This is about to be my new favorite thread... 1. Why do guys talk about they want a soulmate, a partner then proceed to date the dumbest girl they can find with a phat ass? 2. Why are guys shallow? 3. What is the fascination with breasts? 4. Do guys really favor Light skin over Dark skin? 5. Do guys like hair? 6. Why is it ok for men to cheat but not women? 7. If women are assertive and sure and don't take BS, why do you consider her a bitch? 8. Is confidence the ultimate turn-on? Just curious... Just curious 1) We mean we want a soulmate WITH a fat ass...lol. As far as her being dumb, sometimes you have to date someone to determine that. I really don't know too many guys who are serious about dumb girls, but they might keep them around to have fun. 2) Why are women shallow? All I can say is that attraction matters. 3) Is this a serious question? LOL. I'm more fascinated with lower body myself. 4) Some do. Some prefer dark skin over light skin. Its just a matter of personal preference. 5) Again, personal preference. I prefer a woman's natural hair over permed or weave. On the scale of things that matter to me though, hair is near the bottom. 6) Human nature. People are generally ok with anything as long as THEY are the ones doing it. When it happens to them, they're not ok with it anymore. 7) There is a big difference between being assertive and being a bitch. I wouldn't consider a woman a bitch simply because she's assertive and doesn't take BS. 8) It is a turn on, I wouldn't say its the ultimate turn on for me. Too much can actually be a turn off for me. |
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Post by DamieQue™ on Jun 13, 2010 23:02:02 GMT -5
Sapphy's Questions
1a.) They are Cut Buddy Aspirants showing up to events hoping to make the next line 1b.) It would help, keep alcohol out of it, and it could stay platonic 1c.) not necessarily
2. See Answer #1
3. Because we do
4. Because they're still designing them for people like me
5. because it's for you
6. I'm putting my hand there to trip the light sensor so the doors don't try to close - it's not that I don't notice the other chick I'm blocking, she's just less important than the chick I'm trying to impress - otherwise I'd be tripping the light sensor for her
Bun's Questions
1. Because I'm only responsible for my woman, the other women are their men's responsibility - it's his job to keep the door from slammin' in her face
2. We believe in getting our money's worth... and as long as there's some structural integrity (and I mean on the molecular level) I'll keep wearing them until you replace them (yes - YOU replace them LOL - and you probably will because it will just annoy you so much)
3. Honest answer - the only people we'd be really looking out for leaving stuff at our house would be a girlfriend (i.e. ol' girl who's trying to "mark her territory"). If we're not looking for it, we could probably go months before we notice
4. There's no upside to it. Admitting it won't get us back in with you. And if by some miracle I get back in, that truth would only serve to haunt me. It's lose-lose.
Maggie's Questions
1. The Phat a$$ chick is the place-holder until he finds the soulmate. P.S. if you've been with a dude for a few years, and he's never upgraded your status... guess what? You're the place-holder
2. People are shallow
3. I cannot properly put it into words... it's like Skittles, Happiness, A Back Rub, and 2 Sunsets with a Winning Lottery ticket all combined together in one emotion. Viva las Ooblee Jooblees
4. Honestly I am not convinced that this is the phenomena that it has been purported to be (especially here). I am confident that what trumps skin tone is body type (i.e. a big a$$, big breasts) and what trumps body type, is personality. So my vote is, no we don't favor light skin over dark.
5. On your head? Absolutely. On your body. Here - borrow my clippers
6. Is it ok for either? I know we tend to be less forgiving - and guilty of it more (but that's probably due to expectation of both parties) but no one that I know is saying that makes it ok...
7. LOL because being assertive and not taking BS doesn't require you to BE a b!tch - but a number of you don't seem to understand that. Many of you think you're being assertive and taking no BS when actually you're BEING a b!tch. Just like some people think they're "keeping it real" when really they're just being a$$es.
8. I think so - especially if we're talking about confidence in herself. Confidence, not to be confused with arrogance.
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Post by Bunny Hop on Jun 14, 2010 6:45:39 GMT -5
LOL at all of these.
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Post by Chal™ on Jun 14, 2010 7:56:10 GMT -5
Question: Why can't you say "I love you" first?
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Post by InMyWorld on Jun 14, 2010 8:34:57 GMT -5
1. When men are constantly accusing us of cheating (like every dude that looks at us we messing around), does that mean its their guilty conscience because they are cheating so they feel we are too?
2. Why do men lower their standards? If we are willing to be with you but we look up and you in a relationship with a dirty foot hoodrat that we look ten times better than, is she doing something im not?
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Post by DamieQue™ on Jun 14, 2010 9:27:29 GMT -5
Question: Why can't you say "I love you" first?
...and besides you all are usually eager to hear and say it... and we are not. It seems only natural that you say it first. That's my best guess anyway. |
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Post by QueenOH on Jun 14, 2010 9:41:22 GMT -5
Why do you get a big wall size TV that you can see from 3 streets over with no problems but then sit close up on it?
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Post by DamieQue™ on Jun 14, 2010 9:41:41 GMT -5
1. When men are constantly accusing us of cheating (like every dude that looks at us we messing around), does that mean its their guilty conscience because they are cheating so they feel we are too? 2. Why do men lower their standards? If we are willing to be with you but we look up and you in a relationship with a dirty foot hoodrat that we look ten times better than, is she doing something im not?
2. Is she doing something you're not? Yes. Him. Probably in some depraved alien way whose debauchery wouldn't even have been welcome on the set of 2 Girls 1 Cup. You gotta ask yourself, "yo - how did she GET her feet dirty like that? Do real girls truly get down on the floor? And if so, how do their feet end up dirty?"
LOL - seriously though - either dude just isn't ready for a serious relationship (so he goes for the disposable ones - btw this is where I'm betting my money) or she really might have more to offer than the dirty feet imply. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder |
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Post by DamieQue™ on Jun 14, 2010 9:42:41 GMT -5
Why do you get a big wall size TV that you can see from 3 streets over with no problems but then sit close up on it? |
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Post by Bunny Hop on Jun 14, 2010 11:22:46 GMT -5
Yall are such....MEN LOL
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Post by Coach on Jun 14, 2010 11:24:24 GMT -5
Maybe there should be a counterpart to this thread...
Wait...then again scratch that thought.
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Post by DamieQue™ on Jun 14, 2010 11:57:48 GMT -5
Maybe there should be a counterpart to this thread... Wait...then again scratch that though. |
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Post by QueenOH on Jun 14, 2010 11:59:37 GMT -5
You might not want to know what is in my mind. It can get scary in there
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Post by Chal™ on Jun 14, 2010 11:59:47 GMT -5
You guys aren't ready for a counterpart to this thread. Plus, I have a feeling the questions won't be this....tame.
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Post by Vudu_Prince on Jun 14, 2010 12:17:52 GMT -5
:)This is about to be my new favorite thread... 1. Why do guys talk about they want a soulmate, a partner then proceed to date the dumbest girl they can find with a phat ass? 2. Why are guys shallow? 3. What is the fascination with breasts? 4. Do guys really favor Light skin over Dark skin? 5. Do guys like hair? 6. Why is it ok for men to cheat but not women? 7. If women are assertive and sure and don't take BS, why do you consider her a bitch? 8. Is confidence the ultimate turn-on? Just curious... Just curious 1. Maybe that IS their soulmate. Seriously we aren't that hard to please. If you can make your booty clap and can fix a bad ass ham sammich chit you MAYBE the one!... Some figure hell sex is gonna go down hill anyway might as well get me an extremeeee ho and then the sex will taper off to being just good then to get a just good sex from the beginning which will taper off to being nothing. See how I figure I'm gonna go ahead an rehabilitate me a scrippa. Maybe help her with her school work or something. Aren't women tired of seeing the hoes get married? <<<This entire bit is Satire but I'm sayin.. lol 2. Same reason women are shallow. A woman not letting you talk with her unless she finds something attractive about you. The same can be said vice versa. 3. I don't have a fascination with breast BUT I have temporarily became a breast man a time or two in my life times for a moment. I'm more of thick legs, hips, thighs, ass man myself. 4. I prefer dark skin women but when I was growing up I could only get women who were light skin. It wasn't until I transferred schools and came up North that I could actually date dark skin women. It's harder for dark skin brothers to sway a dark skin sistah sometimes so we go with the easier path the thick redbone. shrugs. 5. Yeah I like when a sistah has a natural do. Locs, fro, etc. 6. Who said that? It's okay for women to cheat too... lol 7. Like it has been said there is a difference. One of my favorite lines that I have stated before " Please you're being unreasonable and ignorant that's not strength sistah" 8. No the ultimate turn on is an open minded woman who thinks outside of the damn sand box. |
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Post by DamieQue™ on Jun 14, 2010 12:25:53 GMT -5
You guys aren't ready for a counterpart to this thread. Plus, I have a feeling the questions won't be this....tame. |
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Post by Vudu_Prince on Jun 14, 2010 12:27:19 GMT -5
1. When men are constantly accusing us of cheating (like every dude that looks at us we messing around), does that mean its their guilty conscience because they are cheating so they feel we are too? 2. Why do men lower their standards? If we are willing to be with you but we look up and you in a relationship with a dirty foot hoodrat that we look ten times better than, is she doing something im not? 1. Well let me throw a curve ball on this one. Give you an Uh Ha moment. When a man is accusing you of cheating... more times than none.. either you are cheating or he is not cheating ANYMORE. Most men when we are actively cheating don't accuse you of chit. We don't have time and if the side jawn is the bomb we don't give a fuck. It's after either there has been a fall out with the side jawn or said side jawn has been rehabilitated are we now regulated to one woman. Now we frustrated and are probably noticing things that we weren't looking at before. Then questions arise like... " When did you get THOSE panties and bra right there" you " I been had these" "Really and you've never worn them for me?" or " damn yall going out to the club again huh" you " yeah why you acting like that" " Nothing I'm just sayin yall going out a whole lot... you sure you going to the club?" lol Yall like oh he cheating... Naw sistah we have already cheated and stopped. Now we have idle time and notice all the chit you been doing while we were cheating. Before when you were going out we thought it was good... easier to hook up with our side jawn. Now you going out and we have no side jawn... we question it. Get it? Good.. 2. Probably so. |
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Post by DamieQue™ on Jun 14, 2010 12:31:33 GMT -5
:)This is about to be my new favorite thread... 1. Why do guys talk about they want a soulmate, a partner then proceed to date the dumbest girl they can find with a phat ass? 2. Why are guys shallow? 3. What is the fascination with breasts? 4. Do guys really favor Light skin over Dark skin? 5. Do guys like hair? 6. Why is it ok for men to cheat but not women? 7. If women are assertive and sure and don't take BS, why do you consider her a bitch? 8. Is confidence the ultimate turn-on? Just curious... Just curious 1. Maybe that IS their soulmate. Seriously we aren't that hard to please. If you can make your booty clap and can fix a bad ass ham sammich chit you MAYBE the one!... Some figure hell sex is gonna go down hill anyway might as well get me an extremeeee ho and then the sex will taper off to being just good then to get a just good sex from the beginning which will taper off to being nothing. See how I figure I'm gonna go ahead an rehabilitate me a scrippa. Maybe help her with her school work or something. Aren't women tired of seeing the hoes get married? <<<This entire bit is Satire but I'm sayin.. lol 2. Same reason women are shallow. A woman not letting you talk with her unless she finds something attractive about you. The same can be said vice versa. 3. I don't have a fascination with breast BUT I have temporarily became a breast man a time or two in my life times for a moment. I'm more of thick legs, hips, thighs, ass man myself. 4. I prefer dark skin women but when I was growing up I could only get women who were light skin. It wasn't until I transferred schools and came up North that I could actually date dark skin women. It's harder for dark skin brothers to sway a dark skin sistah sometimes so we go with the easier path the thick redbone. shrugs. 5. Yeah I like when a sistah has a natural do. Locs, fro, etc. 6. Who said that? It's okay for women to cheat too... lol 7. Like it has been said there is a difference. One of my favorite lines that I have stated before " Please you're being unreasonable and ignorant that's not strength sistah" 8. No the ultimate turn on is an open minded woman who thinks outside of the damn sand box.
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Post by InMyWorld on Jun 14, 2010 12:55:33 GMT -5
im dark skinned and i love me a dark, chocolate man...light skinned men never interest me...even though i have ended up with a couple *weird*
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Post by Bunny Hop on Jun 14, 2010 13:37:54 GMT -5
I'll start the thread since no one else will....
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awkwardddd" Like she had the shades in her hand acting like they were upstairs.. Thats a veteran move already... sheesh
@ #4 lol
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