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Post by DamieQue™ on May 18, 2010 13:01:34 GMT -5
Do you tend to view every other organization through the prism of your own organization? Do you feel that you judge them when you do? Do you believe it's appropriate to do? If you're not in an org, have you witnessed what you believed to be intra-fraternal judgment? Did it make you think differently of the org doing the judgment, the org judged, both, or neither?
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Post by Robelite on May 18, 2010 13:05:36 GMT -5
Outside of some all-in-fun "ribbing" that goes on between me and friends who are members of other Greek-lettered organizations, no I don't. My mindset is, I've got enough going on in Alpha and what we're trying to do, that I don't have time to concern myself with anyone else. That's why I've never understood all the back and forth about "processes" when it comes to who is "pledging" the hardest and the longest. I don't care about how long anyone takes to join THEIR fraternity or sorority! Never have, never will!  |
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Post by LejaOMG on May 18, 2010 13:07:01 GMT -5
Certainly. There's one particular sorority that I looked down my nose @ all through undergrad because as a whole I just wasn't feeling their national service agenda as it left a huge void in the community which my chapter had no choice but to fill. There's one that (based on my recent research for another purpose) goes WAY overboard with their hazing policy, and contributes to making it harder on all of us in the courts. Do I think such judgments are appropriate? M'eh. Even if not, IIWII. What would be inappropriate, IMO, is going around vocalizing my thoughts--Especially on those topics that don't affect me at all and are none of my business.
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Post by Bathroom Model on May 18, 2010 13:10:44 GMT -5
Certainly. There's one particular sorority that I looked down my nose @ all through undergrad because as a whole I just wasn't feeling their national service agenda as it left a huge void in the community which my chapter had no choice but to fill. There's one that (based on my recent research for another purpose) goes WAY overboard with their hazing policy, and contributes to making it harder on all of us in the courts. Do I think such judgments are appropriate? M'eh. Even if not, IIWII. What would be inappropriate, IMO, is going around vocalizing my thoughts--Especially on those topics that don't affect me at all and are none of my business.
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Post by Chal™ on May 18, 2010 13:20:04 GMT -5
I JUDGE ALL YOU NINJaS!!!!!!
carry on
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Post by ReignMan19 on May 18, 2010 13:22:31 GMT -5
tactfully refrains....
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Post by Southie on May 18, 2010 13:23:51 GMT -5
I have done the "raised eyebrow" at various chapters, not the org.
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Post by Blu on May 18, 2010 13:30:24 GMT -5
I judged when I first crossed in undergrad, but my opinion opened up once I traveled to different campuses and noticed different examples. Now, like Southie, I notice more on a chapter level than the actual org.
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Post by Bathroom Model on May 18, 2010 13:30:26 GMT -5
You know why cause we all judge.we may not make a part-job out of it. But how can you not when there are eight other organizations that have similar goals. your bound to contrast or compare and it not always PC. |
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Post by icebraka on May 18, 2010 13:30:28 GMT -5
I have done the "raised eyebrow" at various chapters, not the org. ding ding ding....and certain people but never a whole org. we all may do the same things but some orgs pinpoint certain things vs. the other. |
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Post by DamieQue™ on May 18, 2010 13:31:43 GMT -5
If you're not in an org, have you witnessed what you believed to be intra-fraternal judgment? Did it make you think differently of the org doing the judgment, the org judged, both, or neither? Don't make me ask you again
*Chambers round in Shotgun*
p.s. you ain't gotta name the orgs - just wondering if you had seen it and how it made you look at all the folks involved.
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Post by Southie on May 18, 2010 13:36:16 GMT -5
I JUDGE ALL YOU NINJaS!!!!!! carry on Oh goodie! When I come down and visit my LS, I will make sure to give you call, and you can tell me all about it!  |
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Post by ReignMan19 on May 18, 2010 13:44:31 GMT -5
How yall gon called another org gay when yall sitting there with relaxed hair and wearing ascots...
*walks out and slams the door*
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Post by icebraka on May 18, 2010 13:45:24 GMT -5
How yall gon called another org gay when yall sitting there with relaxed hair and wearing ascots... *walks out and slams the door* Who is yall and who is the other org? |
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Post by LejaOMG on May 18, 2010 13:49:59 GMT -5
iSnorted @ Reign.
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Post by Julie Art on May 18, 2010 13:57:00 GMT -5
How yall gon called another org gay when yall sitting there with relaxed hair and wearing ascots... *walks out and slams the door* iDIED! |
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Post by Julie Art on May 18, 2010 13:59:27 GMT -5
I have done the "raised eyebrow" at various chapters, not the org. co-sign. I've looked at some chapters like, are you serious? But I don't apply it to the org. as a whole because those particular chapters weren't living up to any particular standards, not even their orgs., as far as a person from the outside looking in could tell. There was one chapter in particular where all the greeks on my yard were like dudes, seriously? But we didn't attribute to everyone in the org. just that off the wall chapter. |
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Post by DamieQue™ on May 18, 2010 14:00:49 GMT -5
How yall gon called another org gay when yall sitting there with relaxed hair and wearing ascots... *walks out and slams the door*
post #12321 |
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Post by Bathroom Model on May 18, 2010 14:10:57 GMT -5
I have done the "raised eyebrow" at various chapters, not the org. co-sign. I've looked at some chapters like, are you serious? But I don't apply it to the org. as a whole because those particular chapters weren't living up to any particular standards, not even their orgs., as far as a person from the outside looking in could tell. There was one chapter in particular where all the greeks on my yard were like dudes, seriously? But we didn't attribute to everyone in the org. just that off the wall chapter. I need yall to be more specific esp if you talking about certain chapters. That why we won't know what org yall talking about |
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Post by DamieQue™ on May 18, 2010 14:22:54 GMT -5
So no one is brave enough to come in here and suggest that BGLOs judge other GLOs and auxs? No one?
Fine I'll do it.
BGLOs judge other orgs when we feel like they're trying to be like us. Anyone care to deny this?
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Post by LejaOMG on May 18, 2010 14:28:01 GMT -5
I thought u meant w/in BGLOs. But shout out to u stating the obvious anyway  |
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Post by DamieQue™ on May 18, 2010 14:29:39 GMT -5
I thought u meant w/in BGLOs. But shout out to u stating the obvious anyway |
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Post by icebraka on May 18, 2010 14:34:06 GMT -5
So no one is brave enough to come in here and suggest that BGLOs judge other GLOs and auxs? No one?
Fine I'll do it.
BGLOs judge other orgs when we feel like they're trying to be like us. Anyone care to deny this? Shole won't (bolded part) |
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Post by Julie Art on May 18, 2010 14:35:21 GMT -5
Can't deny it, lol!
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Post by Julie Art on May 18, 2010 14:36:18 GMT -5
co-sign. I've looked at some chapters like, are you serious? But I don't apply it to the org. as a whole because those particular chapters weren't living up to any particular standards, not even their orgs., as far as a person from the outside looking in could tell. There was one chapter in particular where all the greeks on my yard were like dudes, seriously? But we didn't attribute to everyone in the org. just that off the wall chapter. I need yall to be more specific esp if you talking about certain chapters. That why we won't know what org yall talking about And with the way I have it, you still won't know what org. I'm talking about, or better yet which chapter  I perfer to leave it that way |
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Post by Bathroom Model on May 18, 2010 14:40:12 GMT -5
^^^sorry I meant tell me what they were doing that was making yall look at them sideways. I don't want you to put the org on blast. Shoot it might be mines.
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Post by Chal™ on May 18, 2010 14:42:19 GMT -5
I JUDGE ALL YOU NINJaS!!!!!! carry on Oh goodie! When I come down and visit my LS, I will make sure to give you call, and you can tell me all about it! That's a bet!. DEAD @ Reign's post |
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Post by Julie Art on May 18, 2010 15:07:04 GMT -5
^^^sorry I meant tell me what they were doing that was making yall look at them sideways. I don't want you to put the org on blast. Shoot it might be mines. ROTFL! It wasn't yours. |
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Post by nsync on May 18, 2010 15:37:55 GMT -5
I feel guilty that I sometimes judge orgs by the supposed stereotypes.
One time while in the field for work I saw an old (like 70's version) of a car beat down parked in front of public housing with a certain orgs tag on it. I was like "wow".
Then I thought what's wrong with that? You think xyz orgs don't have folks with ran down cars who live in the pj's. Come up higher Outtie!
Also one time someone said they had another person to introduce to me who was also happened to be an xyz. I was so shocked to see a mousy plain person in front of me shaking hands and talking. Once again I scolded myself inwardly OUTTIE COME UP HIGHER , ALREADY!
*shrugs*
Branding and marketing is supposed to stick, right?
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Post by Southie on May 18, 2010 15:50:02 GMT -5
I will admit that I have laughed at situations that really wasn't meant to be funny. Different chapters within various orgs do things differently. (take it anyway you like) and yeah...they will get the raised eyebrow.
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