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Post by nsync on Oct 8, 2009 15:36:50 GMT -5
At what point do you typically know it's time to let go of a person, place on thing? Do you normally have special /personal indicators or is it just when you've marked a certain level of progress or decline. Please speak on it.
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Post by ReignMan19 on Oct 8, 2009 15:46:03 GMT -5
thought this was something totally different...
*exits thread*
*will come back when mind in suitable to answer question*
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Post by T-Rex91 on Oct 8, 2009 15:52:12 GMT -5
I so don't know how to answer this because it's so dependent. Sometimes it's objective, like when I moved from Houston, a city I loved, back to Atlanta. I needed to be near older family members and had better long term career opportunities in Atlanta.
Relationships are different. When I'm giving more than I'm getting or even get to the point of indifference, I tend to release. I don't deal with trust breaches well so NOTHING will make me release quicker than that. Do not pass go, do not collect $200.
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Post by QueenOH on Oct 8, 2009 15:54:42 GMT -5
I so thought this was going to be a whole diff conversation.
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Post by T-Rex91 on Oct 8, 2009 15:55:53 GMT -5
Is confused on what Reign and Queen thought this was about......
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Post by Chal™ on Oct 8, 2009 16:02:01 GMT -5
confused? really? no way. off top, just looking at the title you think "RELEASE"
lol
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Post by T-Rex91 on Oct 8, 2009 16:06:03 GMT -5
confused? really? no way. off top, just looking at the title you think "RELEASE" lol Cause for some reason I didn't think a thread about when to liquid release was where she was going.
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Post by Chal™ on Oct 8, 2009 16:19:03 GMT -5
actually, i COULD see her going there. she IS a NEWLYWED. heheehehehehee
i kid. lol
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Post by T-Rex91 on Oct 8, 2009 16:23:53 GMT -5
So basically we can get rid of ever section of this board except General cause y'all shole are merging everthing in (Games, After Dark)
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Post by Chal™ on Oct 8, 2009 16:24:46 GMT -5
lol
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Post by Chal™ on Sept 25, 2012 20:34:05 GMT -5
Yo! Reign!
Run me my money, homie!
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Post by ReignMan19 on Sept 26, 2012 10:03:24 GMT -5
LOL.. Chal you so good at this... Unfortunately what I needed wasn't in this thread (I thought it was)
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Post by Chal™ on Sept 26, 2012 18:40:12 GMT -5
lol. i have a feeling that sometimes...when you ask for stuff...you do so with me in mind, like, "i need such and such so i'm gonna throw it in the air and let Chal do it." lol
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Post by ReignMan19 on Sept 27, 2012 12:00:45 GMT -5
I do! Does that make me a user??? But I always look for myself first but I'm not sure I know how to use the search feature
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Post by ceeceedream on Sept 27, 2012 19:15:46 GMT -5
I let go of a relationship when I see that it is dead. By that I mean there is no longer any growth. I have just recently decided to allow a friendship to dissolve. I am moving toward what was once a shared goal and she is still only talking about it. She has been making poor choices since day one but I believed in her. She said she wanted to do better and sporadically made good choices. However, she is still in the same situation. In fact it is worse. I began to be uncomfortable sharing my joy with her. There seemed to be a little jealousy developing. In this case, I think things will just fizzle out. Our relationship will make a gradual decline that ends in us saying hi in passing and that is more than fine with me.
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Post by Chal™ on Sept 27, 2012 19:18:08 GMT -5
I do! Does that make me a user??? But I always look for myself first but I'm not sure I know how to use the search feature Shame on you!!!! lol Yes it does. and i don't use the search function. i sort the section according to what i'm looking for
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