Your SO and thier friends?

[Can - Do]

Do you guys get along? Are you one big happy family?

Have you ever had to tell your SO that you really aren't feeling thier friends?

Do you just keep it to yourself?

Any tips on breaking the bad news? lol

[Bunny Hop]

my high school boyfriend's best friend and I could not stand each other. the closer weI got, the more his friend didn't like me and the more we bumped heads. Everyone knew we didn't get along so we just tried not to speak when we were around each other .

I'm not a fake person so it won't be hard to tell and I'll tell him. But I will respect their relationship and be cordial and I won't start stuff. I'm not about to tolerate any disrespcet though.

[regaldefined]

canonlybeme said:

Do you guys get along? Are you one big happy family?

Have you ever had to tell your SO that you really aren't feeling thier friends?

Do you just keep it to yourself?

Any tips on breaking the bad news? lol

1. I didn't have to I threw her a suprise party and not one of them showed up or helped to plan so she told me how lame they were.
2. Nah I have a couple of friends she don't really like, we secretly laugh at them.
3. Just say it...I mean I told her i am an asshole by nature so she knows my opinion of people isn't very high and said just because someone is my homie that don't mean you have to feel them like I do, so in OUR home you have a right to ask I take it elsewhere, be out the way, or just deal just like I do, but we should always discuss it.

[MochaD]

Do you guys get along? Are you one big happy family?
I don't mix my friends with my man, never have and never will. I mean, there is an overall mutual respect between the parties and they may interact casually but minimum at parties but that's about it.

Have you ever had to tell your SO that you really aren't feeling thier friends?
His friends aren't mine to feel. I mean, I know of them from what he tells me, but I have no desire to get personally acquainted with them. I keep a respectable distance. Now from what he tells me, I'm not a fan because they lack certain qualities I think friends should have but he claims he don't have any friends and I have too many. Oh well...whatever....

Do you just keep it to yourself?
I told him what I thought of those he told me about (over time) and left it at that. My opinion is just that. He thinks my friends aren't my friends and most of them are miserable. That's his opinion. Once again...oh well...

Any tips on breaking the bad news? lol
Well that depends on what kind of relationship you have. I feel that I should be able to tell you any thing and vice sersa. It's known that you may not like everything I have to say...oh well. ...

[Sista08]

I dont have that problem with the current because were more alike so his friends tend to be like my friends. We often all go out together.

With the ex, I hated his friends. He was an occasional loser and his friends were way worse. I used to tell him that if we ever had kids they couldnt go visit his friends ever.

[Southie]

canonlybeme said:

Do you guys get along? Are you one big happy family?

Have you ever had to tell your SO that you really aren't feeling thier friends?

Do you just keep it to yourself?

Any tips on breaking the bad news? lol

I had a boyfriend, who had some of the most ignorant, ghetto friends that I could not get along with, at all. Naturally, I made the atempt, but it was very difficult, and so I finally told him, that his friends were awful, and that I do not want to deal with them. Their was no other way to deal with that situaion, just had to be straightforward.

[blandtaste]

I am very cool with all of his friends. I'm closest to his brother and his best friend.

The most I do is call either one of them to look for him and occasionally I hang with his other peoples. But I'm never around them when he isn't, and there's no need fo rme to have a deep relationship/friendship with them.