Love & Money

[regaldefined]

How many of you married people pool your money?
Joint bank accts and joint savings?
Do you have something on the side?
Does he/she know?

What about those who don't "do" marriage and you shacking do you pool your money?

Do you consider money you make to be YOURS if you female?

Do you consider money HE makes to be yours if you female?

Dudes do you think its your duty to provide?
Do you think her money is just as green as yours and it should be 50/50?

Dudes would you be intimidated by your girl/wife if she made more?

Would you let her call the monetary shots if she did?

[kingdelta]

We have separate checking accounts but most of the household money goes into his one of his accounts and we pay bills from that. We each put play money aside in separate accounts. It's always our money. But we check with each other on bigger purchases.

[MochaD]

kingdelta said:

We have separate checking accounts but most of the household money goes into his one of his accounts and we pay bills from that. We each put play money aside in separate accounts. It's always our money. But we check with each other on bigger purchases.

Not married, but I think I would rather it that way.

[QueenOH]

We kept separate checking accounts

A joint house account that we both put money into every time we get paid

[Can - Do]

queenoh said:

We kept separate checking accounts

A joint house account that we both put money into every time we get paid

this would be my ideal situation.

[goldenepiphany]

I Would Have A joint But Also Something On The Side