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Post by 123Diva on Dec 17, 2008 12:40:54 GMT -5
If a situation presented itself where it was your life or theirs would you die for your spouse or significant other?
Why or why not?
If you found out that your spouse or significant other would not die for you, would you question his/her love for you?
Speak on it!
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Post by ReignMan19 on Dec 17, 2008 12:41:53 GMT -5
Give me a scenario before i say no...
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Post by 123Diva on Dec 17, 2008 12:46:02 GMT -5
Give me a scenario before i say no... Why you being difficult my e-love? Say you and the SO are victims of a home invasion and they take your girl hostage and say they are gonna blow her brains out. You are there. Do you say, "take me instead." Say you are in a plane that is about to crash, and there is only 1 parachute left between the 2 of you. Do you give it to her? Would you do for her what Denzel was prepared to do for his son in John Q? Please remember that this is a thread about whether or not you would die for the person, NOT about ways of preventing being put in such a situation... |
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Post by DamieQue™ on Dec 17, 2008 12:47:46 GMT -5
Based on what I'm reading up on OO today - naw I wouldn't cause apparently I'm going to end up married to someone who won't tell me everything, and thus I cannot trust her, so she can fend for herself...
...unless she's pregnant and/or we already have kids. Then I go down with the ship as required. A man protects his family.
But if it's just me and her, and she ain't been telling me about this rastafarian niccuh that been trying to get her to buy some "incense" at her job and I found out about it...
...yeah
...you goin' down heffa
...love ya
...but you goin' down
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Post by 123Diva on Dec 17, 2008 12:49:03 GMT -5
Based on what I'm reading up on OO today - naw I wouldn't cause apparently I'm going to end up married to someone who won't tell me everything, and thus I cannot trust her, so she can fend for herself...
...unless she's pregnant and/or we already have kids. Then I go down with the ship as required. A man protects his family.
But if it's just me and her, and she ain't been telling me about this rastafarian niccuh that been trying to get her to buy some "incense" at her job and I found out about it...
...yeah
...you goin' down heffa
...love ya
...but you goin' down damn. |
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Post by LogAKAlly <3'n Keef on Dec 17, 2008 12:49:40 GMT -5
Based on what I'm reading up on OO today - naw I wouldn't cause apparently I'm going to end up married to someone who won't tell me everything, and thus I cannot trust her, so she can fend for herself...
...unless she's pregnant and/or we already have kids. Then I go down with the ship as required. A man protects his family.
But if it's just me and her, and she ain't been telling me about this rastafarian niccuh that been trying to get her to buy some "incense" at her job and I found out about it...
...yeah
...you goin' down heffa
...love ya
...but you goin' down
F U!!!!! 
LMAO!!!!!!! |
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Post by ReignMan19 on Dec 17, 2008 12:53:55 GMT -5
Give me a scenario before i say no... Why you being difficult my e-love? Say you and the SO are victims of a home invasion and they take your girl hostage and say they are gonna blow her brains out. You are there. Do you say, "take me instead." I probably would.... Say you are in a plane that is about to crash, and there is only 1 parachute left between the 2 of you. Do you give it to her? Most likely my girl would be ride or die too so we would have worked out a way to share the parachute... lolWould you do for her what Denzel was prepared to do for his son in John Q? I would have to be in that very moment... I'm not sure Please remember that this is a thread about whether or not you would die for the person, NOT about ways of preventing being put in such a situation... My final answer is it would depend on the situation |
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Post by coldfront06 on Dec 17, 2008 12:56:25 GMT -5
For me, it doesn't depend on the situation as much as it depends on the person. I ran some people through my mind, and some I don't even have to think about. I'd die for my mom or dad in any situation. I would have for a previous girlfriend without question. After that, it gets cloudy...lol.
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Post by 123Diva on Dec 17, 2008 12:56:42 GMT -5
Reign, what's your answer to the last question about questioning your SO's love for you.
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Post by DamieQue™ on Dec 17, 2008 12:57:13 GMT -5
Why you being difficult my e-love? Say you and the SO are victims of a home invasion and they take your girl hostage and say they are gonna blow her brains out. You are there. Do you say, "take me instead." I probably would.... Say you are in a plane that is about to crash, and there is only 1 parachute left between the 2 of you. Do you give it to her? Most likely my girl would be ride or die too so we would have worked out a way to share the parachute... lolWould you do for her what Denzel was prepared to do for his son in John Q? I would have to be in that very moment... I'm not sure Please remember that this is a thread about whether or not you would die for the person, NOT about ways of preventing being put in such a situation... My final answer is it would depend on the situation |
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Post by DamieQue™ on Dec 17, 2008 12:58:42 GMT -5
Based on what I'm reading up on OO today - naw I wouldn't cause apparently I'm going to end up married to someone who won't tell me everything, and thus I cannot trust her, so she can fend for herself...
...unless she's pregnant and/or we already have kids. Then I go down with the ship as required. A man protects his family.
But if it's just me and her, and she ain't been telling me about this rastafarian niccuh that been trying to get her to buy some "incense" at her job and I found out about it...
...yeah
...you goin' down heffa
...love ya
...but you goin' down
F U!!!!!
LMAO!!!!!!! But you chose not to. So be it. See you on the ground. |
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Post by Mrs. Eyes on Dec 17, 2008 12:59:05 GMT -5
Someone I use to talk to told me he would pull a Man on Fire............I told him I would do the same for him.....................................................damn I miss him.
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Post by LogAKAlly <3'n Keef on Dec 17, 2008 12:59:44 GMT -5
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Post by coldfront06 on Dec 17, 2008 13:00:03 GMT -5
Someone I use to talk to told me he would pull a Man on Fire............I told him I would do the same for him.....................................................damn I miss him. When I told you that...I wasn't talking about dying. ;D |
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Post by ReignMan19 on Dec 17, 2008 13:00:48 GMT -5
My final answer is it would depend on the situation LOL!!! Shut up man... if you look in the quoted area you would see some cases I would, some cases I wouldn't... it really would depend... |
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Post by coldfront06 on Dec 17, 2008 13:04:02 GMT -5
6 days out of 7 you wouldn't have anything to worry about. But if that home invasion happened on that 7th day...I might think about it...lol.  |
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Post by LogAKAlly <3'n Keef on Dec 17, 2008 13:06:16 GMT -5
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Post by coldfront06 on Dec 17, 2008 13:09:40 GMT -5
And to answer Diva's last question, no it wouldn't make me view a woman differently if she wouldn't die for me. This is one of those gender roles that I believe in. In a situation like that, I believe its the man's responsibility to make the sacrifice. So I wouldn't expect or want my woman to do it for me. It would be nice to know that she were willing, however, lol.
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Post by 123Diva on Dec 17, 2008 13:18:22 GMT -5
And to answer Diva's last question, no it wouldn't make me view a woman differently if she wouldn't die for me. This is one of those gender roles that I believe in. In a situation like that, I believe its the man's responsibility to make the sacrifice. So I wouldn't expect or want my woman to do it for me. It would be nice to know that she were willing, however, lol. <----is falling in e-love with Cold   |
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Post by huey on Dec 17, 2008 13:22:06 GMT -5
Depends on scenario, but i'd die for SO and i risk my life for strangers or people i'd hardly know.
I mean, id like to think i would.
Who knows what i would do when it comes down to it tho.
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Post by QueenOH on Dec 17, 2008 13:25:07 GMT -5
Based on what I'm reading up on OO today - naw I wouldn't cause apparently I'm going to end up married to someone who won't tell me everything, and thus I cannot trust her, so she can fend for herself...
...unless she's pregnant and/or we already have kids. Then I go down with the ship as required. A man protects his family.
But if it's just me and her, and she ain't been telling me about this rastafarian niccuh that been trying to get her to buy some "incense" at her job and I found out about it...
...yeah
...you goin' down heffa
...love ya
...but you goin' down so you plan to marry someone who posts on OO...hmmm |
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Post by QueenOH on Dec 17, 2008 13:25:50 GMT -5
If a situation presented itself where it was your life or theirs would you die for your spouse or significant other? Why or why not? If you found out that your spouse or significant other would not die for you, would you question his/her love for you? Speak on it! Yes |
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Post by Mrs. Eyes on Dec 17, 2008 13:26:40 GMT -5
Someone I use to talk to told me he would pull a Man on Fire............I told him I would do the same for him.....................................................damn I miss him. When I told you that...I wasn't talking about dying. ;D oh HUSH! LOL! |
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Post by DamieQue™ on Dec 17, 2008 13:57:41 GMT -5
Based on what I'm reading up on OO today - naw I wouldn't cause apparently I'm going to end up married to someone who won't tell me everything, and thus I cannot trust her, so she can fend for herself...
...unless she's pregnant and/or we already have kids. Then I go down with the ship as required. A man protects his family.
But if it's just me and her, and she ain't been telling me about this rastafarian niccuh that been trying to get her to buy some "incense" at her job and I found out about it...
...yeah
...you goin' down heffa
...love ya
...but you goin' down so you plan to marry someone who posts on OO...hmmm |
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Post by Cambist on Dec 17, 2008 14:10:00 GMT -5
In that scenario I would tell them to take me instead...no hesitation.
My mother and father wouldn't allow me to die for them, although I would. Would it make sense for me to do so? Nope, none at all.
If she said that she wouldn't.....hmmmm...i'd be salty but...oh well. Ditto what Cold said. Shoot me....I believe (at least somewhat) in gender roles.
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Post by ReignMan19 on Dec 17, 2008 14:12:11 GMT -5
Reign, what's your answer to the last question about questioning your SO's love for you. I'm not sure... what is it? |
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Post by 123Diva on Dec 17, 2008 14:14:29 GMT -5
Reign, what's your answer to the last question about questioning your SO's love for you. I'm not sure... what is it? Would you question your SO's love for you if you found out that they would not be willing to die for you? Stay with me Reign... |
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Post by DamieQue™ on Dec 17, 2008 14:19:46 GMT -5
I think she should be willing - but like Cam and Cold - I wouldn't allow it. A man protects his family.
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Post by QUIET As Kept on Dec 17, 2008 14:23:29 GMT -5
If nothing else, I've learned that this couldn't be further from the truth I take OO to be a kind of microcosm of the world we live in. |
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Post by coldfront06 on Dec 17, 2008 15:34:43 GMT -5
And to answer Diva's last question, no it wouldn't make me view a woman differently if she wouldn't die for me. This is one of those gender roles that I believe in. In a situation like that, I believe its the man's responsibility to make the sacrifice. So I wouldn't expect or want my woman to do it for me. It would be nice to know that she were willing, however, lol. <----is falling in e-love with Cold Can you e-cook? LOL |
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But you chose not to. So be it. See you on the ground.
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