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Post by nyunupe on Mar 15, 2012 13:00:26 GMT -5
I''m currently taking part in women's studies focus group, if you'll allow. We're currently discussing female to male attraction and the subject of the penis and confidence was the center of topic...
This was extremely interesting because the women in our group spoke about their dating and sexual experiences. Confidence that men showed took first place versus everything else like financial stability, education, looks, etc...
The interesting part were the dating and sexual experieinces of these women with men who "held their own" versus men who "come up short". In their words, men who were more endowed were men who showed confidence in bed, on their jobs and were more socially engaging than men who were less endowed...Our discussion facilitator asked this question for the women in our group:
Are men's penis size the epicenter to our approach to career, dating, and social climbing?
OOA ladies, what do you say? I would love to hear your responses...In a later thread, I have a similar question for the men, but it's centered on women...
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 15, 2012 13:06:48 GMT -5
I'd have to say no, only because I assume that most men aren't even aware of their comparative penis size until after they become adjusted to society (therefore, having already developed an approach to life that is either confident or not)
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 15, 2012 13:11:13 GMT -5
I'd have to say no, only because I assume that most men aren't even aware of their comparative penis size until after they become adjusted to society (therefore, having already developed an approach to life that is either confident or not) I see... Not to pry, and of course, you don't have to volunteer this info, but in your expereinces, if any, did size have anything to do with their approach to romance, career, social thriving/awkwardness? One other question, are you younger/older than 25? |
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 15, 2012 13:15:14 GMT -5
Those were very astutely worded questions. Not answering either of them, lol. But well done on the phraseology, there.
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 15, 2012 13:29:05 GMT -5
Those were very astutely worded questions. Not answering either of them, lol. But well done on the phraseology, there. I tried, I tried....  |
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 15, 2012 14:16:22 GMT -5
There is not a man other there that doesn't want to be in control...like you said being in control and being controlling are different though. Many men need to be "in control" in some form...otherwise he may feel emasculated. It doesn't have to be dominating control but something.
Last thing any dude wants to feel is like he's not needed.
The above statement is from Coach...
He brought up a good point and relevant point, which is why I brought it to this thread...
Does size have anything to do with the thought of emasculation? is "in-control" about size and "controlling" about lack therof?
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Post by Chal™ on Mar 15, 2012 14:38:58 GMT -5
Are men's penis size the epicenter to our approach to career, dating, and social climbing?
figuratively, sure. literally, no.
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 15, 2012 14:43:04 GMT -5
Are men's penis size the epicenter to our approach to career, dating, and social climbing?figuratively, sure. literally, no. Interesting... Can you expand on that please? |
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Post by Chal™ on Mar 15, 2012 14:52:52 GMT -5
i could....
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 15, 2012 14:53:51 GMT -5
^^ #rude
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Post by Chal™ on Mar 15, 2012 14:57:14 GMT -5
LOL!! OK, Ok, That was mean. My bad.  "Literally, no" because the size of your fun parts bear no weight (no pun intended) in how you approach life. What man do you know says or thinks something goal-wise based on the size of his thang? And yes, I said thang. I say "figuratively, yes" because it take a lot of nerve and/or confidence to do a lot of things in life. You have to have the will to step out of comfort zones and take giant leaps. Especially when it's something you KNOW is hard to do. A person has to have a set of "big ones" to make a move like that. |
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 15, 2012 15:00:44 GMT -5
LOL!! OK, Ok, That was mean. My bad. "Literally, no" because the size of your fun parts bear no weight (no pun intended) in how you approach life. What man do you know says or thinks something goal-wise based on the size of his thang? And yes, I said thang. I say "figuratively, yes" because it take a lot of nerve and/or confidence to do a lot of things in life. You have to have the will to step out of comfort zones and take giant leaps. Especially when it's something you KNOW is hard to do. A person has to have a set of "big ones" to make a move like that. It sounds as if you're saying it shouldn't matter, but it still does.....yes? |
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Post by Chal™ on Mar 15, 2012 15:04:00 GMT -5
Figuratively, yes. Literally, no.
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 15, 2012 15:05:47 GMT -5
Figuratively, yes. Literally, no. hmmmm....okay. |
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Post by Chal™ on Mar 15, 2012 15:06:49 GMT -5
you know i did that on purpose, right? lol
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 15, 2012 15:09:03 GMT -5
you know i did that on purpose, right? lol yeah...you remind me of DamieQue...I get a headache from both of ya'll after about 10 post. |
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Post by Chal™ on Mar 15, 2012 15:10:54 GMT -5
*claps dust off of hands* Good. That means my job is done. |
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 15, 2012 16:56:45 GMT -5
*claps dust off of hands* Good. That means my job is done. I expected more from you....Take my advice and go cop that #11 |
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