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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 12, 2012 11:01:09 GMT -5
How important are the elements below in regard to your attraction to another?
Do you have any rules regarding the elements below? (i.e. its a no go for chicks with deep voices, Short guys, girl/guy with foul breath)
Voice
Smell
Facial appearance
Height
Weight
Hygiene
Financial Stability
Kissing
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Post by QueenOH on Mar 12, 2012 11:08:17 GMT -5
Smell and Hygiene
Face
Weight
Kissing
Voice
Financial
Height
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 12, 2012 11:24:11 GMT -5
Voice- not a dealbreaker either way. I can appreciate a nice, deep voice but it's certainly not a requirement. I'm more into accents than actual vocal quality.
Smell- same deal w/the voice. I adore a man wearing an expertly selected scent, but as I do not wear perfume I really don't care whether he chooses to. Smelling like soap and/or fabric softener is just fine. If he has a scent I don't care for, I'd probably say something.
Facial appearance- Just gimme somethin I can work with. I dated this dude who was decent-looking, but used to sleep (and wake up) SOOO ugly. It bothered me alot. Lol.
Height- Gotta be taller than me. Sorry. Not negotiable at this time.
Weight- Umm, I like them bigger than me. But that's completely negotiable. There IS such a thing as too big, though.
Hygiene- I don't know what this means. I see not how "hygiene" could be negotiable.
Financial Stability- Not a factor in my "attraction."
Kissing- again, most likely I'm "attracted" to you before I've had the opportunity to ascertain your kissing prowess. If we kiss fairly soon after meeting and it's amazing, then you might could get .75 preference points for that.
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Post by Chal™ on Mar 12, 2012 11:57:24 GMT -5
Voice
I try not to be too anal about a man’s voice. However, I absolutely cannot deal with a man who speaks in a high pitch or somewhat feminine tone. I’m not asking for you to have a Barry White/Isaac Hayes thing going on. I just need the tone of your voice to have a little depth.
Smell
Scent is major. I don’t do odors. Like, I understand if you just came in from playing ball with the fellas, or, if you have a “physical” occupation, came in smelling like work. But your first destination should be the shower.
Facial appearance
I’m sorry, something about your face HAS to attract me to you. I’m not shallow by a long shot, but for me to say anything other than that would be a lie. It could be your eyes, your smile, anything. But I have to be able to look at you without thinking, “damn!!! This fool here is ugh!”
Height
I’ve got a thing for guys I can look up to. Literally. I love to wear heels. I don’t want to tower over you when we go out. Eye level? Fine. Looking at the top of your head? Not an option.
Weight
I like large guys. Not big, sloppy, 9 month pregnant looking dudes. Guys with a nice height/weight solid build. I don’t discriminate against a more slender or athletically build guy, but a string bean beanpole is not where it’s at. Tried that. Felt like I was hugging a mop.
Hygiene
Hygiene is one of those non-negotiable things. It must be up to par.
Financial Stability Not really sure how to word my answer on this one. I don’t like a guy because of the money he has or makes, but knowing that you are able to handle your business without robbing Peter to pay Paul is a major plus. That doesn’t determine my attraction, but in the long run, it plays a role in whether or not I can see a serious future with you.
Kissing
I won’t be kissing you when we first meet, so that won’t play a part in my attraction to you. Later down the line, though, kissing becomes important. I love kissing. It’s soooooo…yummy gummy goodness. If a guy sucks at kissing, I don’t mind taking the time out to teach him.
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 12, 2012 12:02:21 GMT -5
Facial Appearance- Since good-looks are according to the beholder, I adjust to sexiness. I'm a man, so naturally, I want beauty on my arms, but I want swagger too....in other words, be confident in your own skin and that will reasonate with me.
Intelligence- If you have confidence/swagger with your style/looks and couple that with intellect, I have a boner.
Smell/Personal Hygiene- Need I answer...really?
Voice- I love an upbeat voice....a bougie voice. A voice that makes me feel like everyday is good day when I hear your voice. A voice that could even make "kiss my ass" sound less threatening.
Height/Weight- I'm 6'0, so shorter than me is better. I do not date 300lb women, but proportianate-sized women will do...ONLY if there are no hang-ups. I need confidence. I do not need to hear shit like "I can't eat that because I'm watching my figure" or " I hate skinney bitches"...
Kissing- If you're not a good kisser, don't you worry about a thang, I'll get you where you need to be.
Financial Stability- I just ask that you live within your needs and that you have a basic understanding of fiduciary principals. I'll handle the rest...
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 12, 2012 12:05:43 GMT -5
VoiceI try not to be too anal about a man’s voice. However, I absolutely cannot deal with a man who speaks in a high pitch or somewhat feminine tone. I’m not asking for you to have a Barry White/Isaac Hayes thing going on. I just need the tone of your voice to have a little depth. SmellScent is major. I don’t do odors. Like, I understand if you just came in from playing ball with the fellas, or, if you have a “physical” occupation, came in smelling like work. But your first destination should be the shower. Facial appearanceI’m sorry, something about your face HAS to attract me to you. I’m not shallow by a long shot, but for me to say anything other than that would be a lie. It could be your eyes, your smile, anything. But I have to be able to look at you without thinking, “damn!!! This fool here is ugh!” HeightI’ve got a thing for guys I can look up to. Literally. I love to wear heels. I don’t want to tower over you when we go out. Eye level? Fine. Looking at the top of your head? Not an option. WeightI like large guys. Not big, sloppy, 9 month pregnant looking dudes. Guys with a nice height/weight solid build. I don’t discriminate against a more slender or athletically build guy, but a string bean beanpole is not where it’s at. Tried that. Felt like I was hugging a mop. Hygiene Hygiene is one of those non-negotiable things. It must be up to par. Financial Stability Not really sure how to word my answer on this one. I don’t like a guy because of the money he has or makes, but knowing that you are able to handle your business without robbing Peter to pay Paul is a major plus. That doesn’t determine my attraction, but in the long run, it plays a role in whether or not I can see a serious future with you. KissingI won’t be kissing you when we first meet, so that won’t play a part in my attraction to you. Later down the line, though, kissing becomes important. I love kissing. It’s soooooo…yummy gummy goodness. If a guy sucks at kissing, I don’t mind taking the time out to teach him. Boo to your Kissing policy!...We MUST kiss on the first date. We will be kissing on the first date. Got that? |
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 12, 2012 12:12:05 GMT -5
Voice - not really a deal breaker ... as long as she doesn't sound like Weezy jefferson
Smell - I'm highly attracted to fragrances. If you smell like lavendar or something sweet. I can get caught up in the rapture of you
Facial appearance - Beauty is subjective but I need the no make up to look as comparable as the made up you.
Height - I'm short so as long you don't mind. I dont mind.. (i learn climbing trees are fun)
Weight - I like 'em petite
Hygiene- You must keep this in order at ALL TIMES. ALL TIMES.
Financial Stability - not a factor.
Kissing - not a deal breaker. I can teach!
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 12, 2012 12:13:49 GMT -5
"Hygiene- I don't know what this means. I see not how "hygiene" could be negotiable."
I wouldn't have put this on there if this chick didn't tell me she like the scent of sweaty balls... LOL ...
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Post by Oldskool on Mar 12, 2012 12:14:34 GMT -5
voice: Nice manly voice. I had a problem with Mike Tyson even though he was a heavy weight fight. Tommy Davidson did a stand up about him. smell: This is #1. I can't get to the voice if your musk hits me in the face. facial appearance: Not paramount, but it is a consideration for my children's sake. C'mon man. Look at Bobbie Kristina. Her mom was gorgeous, but she looks just like her, not so attractive, daddy. height Not really a problem. Everyone is the same height when horizontal.  weight we can work on it if everything else meets approval hygiene This goes along with smell. financial stability Only one thing to say, YOU ARE NOT DRIVING MY CAR.
kissing No comment
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 12, 2012 12:18:09 GMT -5
height Everyone is the same height when horizontal. *shakes head vigorously* Nope. |
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 12, 2012 12:18:55 GMT -5
"Hygiene- I don't know what this means. I see not how "hygiene" could be negotiable." I wouldn't have put this on there if this chick didn't tell me she like the scent of sweaty balls... LOL ... Give me her phone number. I have some things to discuss with her. |
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 12, 2012 12:21:07 GMT -5
"Hygiene- I don't know what this means. I see not how "hygiene" could be negotiable." I wouldn't have put this on there if this chick didn't tell me she like the scent of sweaty balls... LOL ... Okay, that's cool if she like the scent of deeznuts sweat WHILE having sex...but if you like sweaty deeznuts after I played ball, she gotta roll. Deeznuts sweat and fromunda cheese are two different things...some dudes just don't clean right down there. |
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 12, 2012 12:22:08 GMT -5
"Hygiene- I don't know what this means. I see not how "hygiene" could be negotiable." I wouldn't have put this on there if this chick didn't tell me she like the scent of sweaty balls... LOL ... Give me her phone number. I have some things to discuss with her. Only if I can listen in on 3 way.. lol |
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 12, 2012 12:25:23 GMT -5
I had to urbandic this. I'm in bad shape now. |
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 12, 2012 12:25:47 GMT -5
"Hygiene- I don't know what this means. I see not how "hygiene" could be negotiable." I wouldn't have put this on there if this chick didn't tell me she like the scent of sweaty balls... LOL ... Okay, that's cool if she like the scent of deeznuts sweat WHILE having sex...but if you like sweaty deeznuts after I played ball, she gotta roll. Deeznuts sweat and fromunda cheese are two different things...some dudes just don't clean right down there. she was def talking about "after ball playing" nuts. I can't even tolerate it so I dont know how she found that sexy.  |
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 12, 2012 12:28:14 GMT -5
Give me her phone number. I have some things to discuss with her. Only if I can listen in on 3 way.. lol #deal |
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 12, 2012 12:30:26 GMT -5
I had to urbandic this. I'm in bad shape now. Yeah man.....Chicks really need to know how to implement the fromunda test. I taught my sister and my cousin and they swear by it. |
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 12, 2012 12:32:28 GMT -5
Ugh.
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Mar 12, 2012 12:39:43 GMT -5
Voice- I'm not hung up on this completely BUT if your voice is super high....that's annoying and possibly suspecty. Super low...that might be a problem too.
Smell- Ohhhhhh ain't nuttin better than a nice smelling man. A man must find the scent that works well with his body and he will get some extra cool points from me. I'm really feeling that Sean John, Loris Azzaro, Lacoste, Burberry Touch, D & G The One and the list goes on and on...
Facial appearance- I am not one for a lot of facial hair. If you are looking like Rick Ross or Don Quixote that is just too much for me to deal with. I like a clean cut man. Goatee and thin sideburns that's a nice look for me.
Height- Tall men have really been a turn off to me. I have been drawn to shorter men for some reason. Like 5'6-5'10
Weight- I don't like overweight, "thick" or husky men. Regular to athletic build is nice for me.
Hygiene- Gots ta be on point!! Nuttin worse than ran over shoes, wrinkled cloths, dirty nails, DIRTY CAR, bad body odors, foul breath, etc...
Financial Stability- You don't have to necessarily make more money than I but you must be capable of supporting yourself and the ability to support another. You should have short and long term financial goals (as do I) and be able to articulate them. I'm not great at saving but I am good at managing money. I would like to have someone that can do one of both and we can work on areas we lack. Now if you riding around in a $5,000 car with $8,000 paint job and $2500 rims yea you need to work on that.
Kissing- Ummm I'm not kissing you on the first encouter but this should be on point as well.
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Post by 123Diva on Mar 12, 2012 12:42:03 GMT -5
This thread has gone all kinds of left.
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on Mar 12, 2012 12:54:32 GMT -5
Voice
He has to sound manly...A strong and powerful voice is what I like
Smell
Smell clean..
Facial appearance
Height
I love a tall man..I like to climb him and sit on his lap
Weight
2 big people cannot lay together..I cannot have your tits and belly on mine.
Hygiene
Financial Stability
He has to have it or either be making it. With a possibility of knowing how to make it..and it has to be legally
Kissing
He has to know how to kiss..but it will take me sometime to know because Im NOT a kisser. Kissing is intimacy
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 12, 2012 12:55:09 GMT -5
LOL.. I mean... that was the intent  |
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 12, 2012 13:04:20 GMT -5
Height- Tall men have really been a turn off to me. I have been drawn to shorter men for some reason. Like 5'6-5'10 my first time hearing such a thing ^^^ in life. Normally it's the liliputian chicks hollering about "oh I neeeed me a TALL man. 6'4 or better, baby!" Girl stop. |
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 12, 2012 13:18:55 GMT -5
Height- Tall men have really been a turn off to me. I have been drawn to shorter men for some reason. Like 5'6-5'10 my first time hearing such a thing ^^^ in life. Normally it's the liliputian chicks hollering about "oh I neeeed me a TALL man. 6'4 or better, baby!" Girl stop. I'm saying tho. <--------- 5'8 |
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Mar 12, 2012 13:21:18 GMT -5
Height- Tall men have really been a turn off to me. I have been drawn to shorter men for some reason. Like 5'6-5'10 my first time hearing such a thing ^^^ in life. Normally it's the liliputian chicks hollering about "oh I neeeed me a TALL man. 6'4 or better, baby!" Girl stop. Nope not me I am 5'5 I like a men that is around my height or a ltitle taller... I don't want you so tall it seems domineering or you tryna punk me lol! |
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Mar 12, 2012 13:21:48 GMT -5
my first time hearing such a thing ^^^ in life. Normally it's the liliputian chicks hollering about "oh I neeeed me a TALL man. 6'4 or better, baby!" Girl stop. I'm saying tho. <--------- 5'8 What you smell like... |
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 12, 2012 13:23:55 GMT -5
You're 5'8" Reign? Oh. I obviously suck at estimating height (because my own height is so variable)
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 12, 2012 13:38:22 GMT -5
I'm saying tho. <--------- 5'8 What you smell like... Dove Soap and a undisclosed fragrance. |
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Mar 12, 2012 13:43:03 GMT -5
Ohhh you got me with that Dove I know you smelling ready ready! lol
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 12, 2012 13:55:32 GMT -5
Ohhh you got me with that Dove I know you smelling ready ready! lol Yep. |
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