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Post by 123Diva on Mar 9, 2012 11:11:05 GMT -5
LOL....Leja and Reign, ya'll are funny.
I'll ponder it.
I have just seen a lot lately that justifies every single word of the things you have written in this thread.
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 9, 2012 11:16:54 GMT -5
I just flatlined. Trust that I know about this. SMH. I am in a sharing mood, but I won't. <----Incognegress (kinda sorta) LMBO...I can't deal with Leja and her truths right now. where I come from, that's what PM is for. Yes. Do it. Commiserate with Leja. And ask Reign. I'm great at reading your private thoughts and sanitizing them for public consumption! Yep. She a great translator. |
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 9, 2012 11:24:26 GMT -5
For example, I can easily translate Reign's post ^^^above. He meant to say "she IS a great translator." See?
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Post by 123Diva on Mar 9, 2012 11:28:21 GMT -5
LOL.
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 9, 2012 11:28:22 GMT -5
hey... that was southern... She a, he a, they a, she be, he be, they be.
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 9, 2012 11:31:11 GMT -5
hey... that was southern... She a, he a, they a, she be, he be, they be. Right. and I translated it for common understanding. You're welcome. |
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Post by QUIET As Kept on Mar 9, 2012 11:36:16 GMT -5
<<--required by profession to be "on the scene" <<--minimizes "on the scene"-ness to only what's required, as a result <<--generally avoids men who are "on the scene" by profession, also as a result This is a tricky one. What happens when a person's profession require that he/she be "on the scene"? |
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 9, 2012 11:36:56 GMT -5
look who it is!! #welcomehome
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Post by QUIET As Kept on Mar 9, 2012 11:38:10 GMT -5
Maaaaaaaan, if you don't go saddown somewhere spittin' all this truth!!! I dont get the whole "ward off the groupies" what are you actually doing?? I'm picturing a chick with a bat swinging at a group of clamoring hoodpoodles.... but that can't be real life. It is not real life. But I learned that men are very "present" wherever they are. I used to refer to this as oblivion, but I'm growing. For that reason, when they're on the scene (esp for work), they're working the room, they're popping bottles, they're doing whatever it is they do and the hoodpoodles are attracted to that. Meanwhile, because he is so "present," he's not giving a bit of thought to: (1) is my behavior encouraging foolishness in any way? (2) how would shorty feel if she was seeing this right now? (3) what message am I sending to observers about my relationship status right now? Unless his woman is literally on his arm, hoes will be flocking. So as his woman, you're not really doing anything besides peeing on him and marking your proverbial territory. And then, obviously if he's going home with you he can't be going home with anybody else. But why? Because the man is focused on the scene. These women are nameless and faceless to him. They mean nothing. Whereas the women are thinking and scheming...about how they plan to bump into him in the parking lot and ish. You'd be surprised at how much your woman's very presence can decrease the incidence of hoesh*t. And the worst part is, the real barracudas--the professional piranha hoes, don't even care. So while your presence may be mitigating the hoesh*t, it doesn't prevent it entirely on account of it's some superhuman hoes out here. And they don't all wear fishnets and platform heels. |
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 9, 2012 11:43:53 GMT -5
Look at Quiet...  |
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Post by LejaOMG on Mar 9, 2012 11:48:20 GMT -5
*has a seat* ---> \_
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on Mar 9, 2012 11:48:47 GMT -5
I dont want someone who puts anyone/thing before me always. Even God says tend to wife and home before him.
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Post by Coldfront06 on Mar 10, 2012 1:44:25 GMT -5
"Man she cute and all but she at every party" How much does a person's social life come into play when considering dating someone? Should you alter your social life when getting into a relationship? Why can't your social life and relationship coexist? These are questions. Going through it now, and its been an interesting experience, and I actually grown to like it. The key is balance and respect. She's a socialte...she basically attends everything and knows everybody. I LOVE how she handles certain situations when we're out together. I also don't feel the need to always go out with her...sometimes we go to events/parties together, sometimes we do our own thing. |
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Post by ReignMan19 on Mar 12, 2012 15:24:37 GMT -5
^^ I wonder is it differently for men than it is for women.
I understand women cheat too but I will be so bold to say that once a woman is in a relationship she is happy with she is doesn't really stray where as men... not saying that every man cheats but giving the circumstance it could be hard to turn it down
So a man dating a socialite isn't as hard as a woman dating a social guy.
hmmmm
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