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Post by LejaOMG on Jan 9, 2012 12:37:33 GMT -5
Remember the movie "What Women Want?" with the Australian dude and the jawn from Mad About You? Well, pretend you do. The premise of this thread:
What things do you wish the opposite sex automatically knew about you (or about your gender as a whole)? If folks could read your mind, what would they see?
Keeping it clean is not a requirement, but I mean...live your life.
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Post by LejaOMG on Jan 9, 2012 12:39:14 GMT -5
1. I'm not one of the guys. No interest in that, whatsoever. In fact, I like to be able to notice that you're treating me "different." If you talk to me the same way you talk to your bruhs, I'm going to start treating you the way I treat my girlfriends. And my girlfriends...don't get to see me naked.
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on Jan 9, 2012 12:46:15 GMT -5
I want them/him to know Im learning and I have trust issues so if you LIE then your gone. Also I echo Leja...I want to see that Im treated differently from the others. I want them to know Im your woman because I have no problem showing them your My Man!!
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Post by Southie on Jan 9, 2012 13:38:54 GMT -5
Just ask, don't ASSume.
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Post by LejaOMG on Jan 9, 2012 14:03:07 GMT -5
2. All I'm asking...is for a little RESPECT. I realize that we are not exclusive, I am aware that we are not committed to one another. Still, there is no reason why you need to be careless about my feelings. I don't mind being a side jawn, but I don't want to made to feel like a side jawn.
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Post by Chal™ on Jan 9, 2012 14:12:00 GMT -5
2. All I'm asking...is for a little RESPECT. I realize that we are not exclusive, I am aware that we are not committed to one another. Still, there is no reason why you need to be careless about my feelings. I don't mind being a side jawn, but I don't want to made to feel like a side jawn. Speak, sista!! |
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Post by Chal™ on Jan 9, 2012 14:19:58 GMT -5
In regards to a certain crowd I've found myself around lately: Don't try me. I'm not one of these groupie broads hanging around trying to get 5 minutes of your shine. I'm only here to support my friends. As you've seen, when they leave the stage they make it over to me within 15 minutes to walk me to my vehicle.
I'm not a "Memphis chick." What works on them doesn't work for me. Come correct or don't come at all.
Don't lie to me. Keep it 100. I don't expect you to tell me EVERYTHING, but you will keep me abreast of what I NEED to know.
Yes, it IS my business if you're out here "relating with other chicks (random or otherwise). Let me chose whether or not I want to del with that.
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Post by LejaOMG on Jan 9, 2012 14:24:26 GMT -5
Yes, it IS my business if you're out here "relating with other chicks (random or otherwise). Let me chose whether or not I want to deal with that. *catches the holy ghost* Ohhh, hakunamatata! Heshouldboughtahonda! Cominginayellowbowtie! |
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Post by LejaOMG on Jan 9, 2012 14:26:38 GMT -5
3. you CANNOT just be reaching for certain ish without properly priming it beforehand. Such things can and will get you punched in the chest and/or kneed in the neck. *Forrest Gump voice* and that's all I have to say about that.
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on Jan 9, 2012 14:53:43 GMT -5
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Post by Chal™ on Jan 9, 2012 15:50:05 GMT -5
Yes, it IS my business if you're out here "relating with other chicks (random or otherwise). Let me chose whether or not I want to deal with that. *catches the holy ghost* Ohhh, hakunamatata! Heshouldboughtahonda! Cominginayellowbowtie! o->----< Slain! |
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Post by Chal™ on Jan 9, 2012 15:57:40 GMT -5
You can have all the game in the world, but if I say no (to whatever) I mean no.
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on Jan 9, 2012 22:08:24 GMT -5
I don't do "sisters cousins or female bff" they want your or sex was involved...
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Post by Chal™ on Jan 10, 2012 10:26:12 GMT -5
I don't do "sisters cousins or female bff" they want your or sex was involved... as a "sister/cousin/female bff" i can't really roll with you on that on, Twin. lol |
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on Jan 10, 2012 12:48:58 GMT -5
lol..its okay..but I dont deal with them...
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Post by Chal™ on Jan 10, 2012 13:17:34 GMT -5
Gotta ease up on that, Twin. Every female friend in his life isn't out to f**k him. Granted, there are some who MAY feel that way. Just makes it hard for those of us who are genuine.
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Post by LejaOMG on Jan 10, 2012 13:35:33 GMT -5
4. Yes, I know that YOU don't see anything inappropriate about your relationship with a certain woman. But I have intuition. And she and I speak the same language. And I understand things about her intentions that you do not. You can believe me and be happy or ignore me and be regretful. I would have no reason to speak against her if she hadn't shown herself (in that language you do not understand) to be a raggedy heffa.
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on Jan 10, 2012 15:44:23 GMT -5
4. Yes, I know that YOU don't see anything inappropriate about your relationship with a certain woman. But I have intuition. And she and I speak the same language. And I understand things about her intentions that you do not. You can believe me and be happy or ignore me and be regretful. I would have no reason to speak against her if she hadn't shown herself (in that language you do not understand) to be a raggedy heffa. This is what Im trying to say..but Leja said it in my "if I wanted to be proper speech" |
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Post by Chal™ on Jan 10, 2012 16:42:58 GMT -5
And I can totally understand and agree with what L said. However, when reading what she wrote i didn't get the invisible "all women" feel that I got from yours.
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on Jan 10, 2012 17:13:34 GMT -5
Im not implying all Women but....if the stiletto fits
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Post by Chal™ on Jan 11, 2012 10:30:54 GMT -5
*struts*
LOL! I kid.
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Post by Sapphire on Jan 11, 2012 22:40:50 GMT -5
I heart Leja and this thread. Tis all
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