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Post by **Dea** on Jul 5, 2011 3:49:39 GMT -5
SO I was just reading the "This is why I love Him/Her" thread and I could do nothing but shake my damn head at my self! The gentleman I spoke of with such passion in that thread was my Ex and I was holding on to a love that made me feel comfortable in the past. In hindsight I am utterly embarrassed because I went against one of my own sayings:
YOUR EX IS AN EX FOR A REASON!
So what's your reason? The things that made my ex an EX are the exact same things that popped me upside my head when I found myself in-one-sided-love with him again. We can use this thread as a reminder of why we should keep the past in the past! Let's run em!! |
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Post by **Dea** on Jul 5, 2011 4:04:27 GMT -5
I'll go first!
*He was OVERLY goal driven! (like dude had a pocket full of dreams but no patience to see them thru till the end. Or was a sucka for a get rich quick scheme [think: Raisin In The Sun])
*Selfish
*cocky (Let me tell you what this mofo told me! SO he read somewhere that to every one Black man there are 6 Black women. So he calls me one day and says "Bae! So I was reading this statistic right. And I was thinking, I'm like the epitome of a Black Man at this point. I mean, Im pretty much everything a woman in today's world wants. SO, I was thinking....it would be just amazingly selfish of me to hold all of that to one woman. That would be just rude. My goal now is to have a home with 6 women! Not even on the sexual tip....just because these women deserve a good man like me these days!" HE WAS SERIOUS!!! This was about 2yrs ago when we were just friends (after the relationship)....needless to say...this is still his goal!
*money hungry (one of those guys who responds to a "how you been" with a "as long as Im getting this money Im alright!" UGH!!!
*overly emotional
*idiotic logics
*didn't realize what he had until it was gone. I need me someone who realizes what they have WHILE they have it! Thanks!
there's a bunch more but these were the main things!
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Post by LejaOMG on Jul 5, 2011 8:17:03 GMT -5
It simply...wasn't the right time.
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Post by Chal™ on Jul 5, 2011 9:20:38 GMT -5
There were several reasons whay, but I'll go with once we made it to fiance/fiancee status, major changes happened.
~he became overly protective
~he tried to be controlling
~he lived a double standard
~i lost respect for him
~etc. etc. etc.
No where in here am i taking blame away from myself. however, it was his actions that caused my catastophic reactions.
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Post by QueenOH on Jul 5, 2011 9:35:49 GMT -5
My Reason:
It was Chal's fault
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Post by Chal™ on Jul 5, 2011 11:23:11 GMT -5
My Reason: It was Chal's fault  |
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Post by QueenOH on Jul 5, 2011 11:34:11 GMT -5
You are the one that convinced me that he like blazing hot chili peppers in his birthday apple pie! How was I to know he was would have an allergic reaction and his throat would close up?
Guys don't like chicks that almost kill them.
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Post by Chal™ on Jul 5, 2011 11:41:12 GMT -5
noooooo, i said he'd like a Red Hot Chili Peppers cd AND an apple pie for his birthday.
learn how to listen.
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Post by QueenOH on Jul 5, 2011 11:47:05 GMT -5
noooooo, i said he'd like a Red Hot Chili Peppers cd AND an apple pie for his birthday. learn how to listen. Whatever. What about when it took me 20mins to get my cell phone from you so I could call for help? You just had to finish that last level of angry birds |
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Post by Chal™ on Jul 5, 2011 11:50:06 GMT -5
Hey, I was on a winning streak. Besides, all you had to do was give him a lil benadryl.
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Jul 6, 2011 10:18:44 GMT -5
He was a mama's boy and his mama ruled our house and lives from afar...
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