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Post by LogAKAlly <3'n Keef on Sept 17, 2010 4:03:58 GMT -5
(Also meaning, normal looking by comparison).
So, who is the ugly friend in your circle?
Why does the ugly friend get to roll...what does she do/have to compensate?
Are you the ugly friend?
If so, why do you get to roll...how do you compensate?
What's the cost vs benefit of having/being the ugly friend?
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Post by **Dea** on Sept 17, 2010 5:19:13 GMT -5
LMAO @ "are you the ugly friend"? U silly as hell!!! Most times the "ugly friend" thinks they are the hottest chick in the crew!! Um....I usually roll solo....so as for right now I don't think I have an "ugly friend". Back in HS........DIFFERENT STORY!!! But I wont go there! With my roommates insecurities you'd think she was the "ugly friend" when we're together. But she doesn't look bad at all...she just does stupid things to get attention and talk entirely too much and too loud. MOF! THAT'S IT!!!! All my "ugly friends" aren't ugly...they are insecure....and their sheer lack of confidence makes them the uglier of the crew. There's another one....trick is NUTS....completely off her rocket...in a BAD way!!! Heffa is like Crazy Wolf bitch from the Boondocks!!! Baby girl has some Lorena Bobbitt in her blood...but she is sooo pretty to me....but good GAWD MAN!!!! Insecurity is afraid of this chick! Hey....she's actually how I met my roomy! Maybe the roomy hung with her to make her feel better about herself! **lightbulb moment** In my experiences, the less adequate friend (that's a much better way to say it...it's all inclusive!) tends to compensate by becoming more like the Alpha bitch in the group. Unfortunately, a lot of times, that person is me. For instance, the Crazy Wolf bitch from the Boondocks girl admired my sexual openness....in turn...she started fucking the entire freshman class....WE WERE SENIORS.....and this is COLLEGE!!!!! MOFOS that couldn't even drink legally!!! This pissed me off because her activity was obviously supposed to be a mimic of what she understood my sexual life to be but Dea is not a hoe and she would NEVER be ok with doing a Freshman.....(ok, I did have one but he was my Senior project!!...My gift to my dear Alma Mater...and baby was fione!!! but that's beside the point!) So she almost got slapped in the club a couple times because she was doing THE MOST without actually knowing WHO and WHAT she was imitating. My roomy....***sighs***...lawd save me from this child!! Let's see....just this summer she's ended celibacy and boned this cat she only knew a week and started claiming him as her BF ONLY because I started claiming my friend as my boothang (that's the closest to "my man" Dea is willing to go right now! LOL), considers going back to the dude (oh yea, he had a gf of 3 yrs and chiruns! ha!) whenever I have "company" over because "i wanna have sex too! ".... LOSER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! UGH!!!!! I miss my BFFs.......Tmo, my STL BFF, my N.O. BFF (in Iraq now fighting for this piece of shit ass country) and my Oakland BFF......with these girls, everything is equal. I've never felt inadequate to them and they have no need to feel inadequate with me!!! YAY EQUALITY!!!!
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Post by All Pledging Is Legal on Sept 17, 2010 6:30:09 GMT -5
In my experiences, the less adequate friend (that's a much better way to say it...it's all inclusive!) tends to compensate by becoming more like the Alpha bitch in the group. Unfortunately, a lot of times, that person is me. For instance, the Crazy Wolf bitch from the Boondocks girl admired my sexual openness....in turn...she started fucking the entire freshman class....WE WERE SENIORS.....and this is COLLEGE!!!!! MOFOS that couldn't even drink legally!!! This pissed me off because her activity was obviously supposed to be a mimic of what she understood my sexual life to be but Dea is not a hoe and she would NEVER be ok with doing a Freshman.....(ok, I did have one but he was my Senior project!!...My gift to my dear Alma Mater...and baby was fione!!! but that's beside the point!) So she almost got slapped in the club a couple times because she was doing THE MOST without actually knowing WHO and WHAT she was imitating. It sounds like you got jealous of her because she had more sex than you. Why would it make a difference if a college senior had sex with a college freshman? Class ranking had no importance to me in college. Everyone is an adult, even though some cannot legally buy alcohol. Your story is the reason why women start feeling bad after sleeping around. A woman should never be embarrassed about her sexual conquests. You should have stepped your game up and got some guys too. Jealousy ends friendships all of the time.
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Post by Vudu_Prince on Sept 17, 2010 9:16:45 GMT -5
In college it seemed as if the ugly friend was allllllways the driver. Therefore if you didn't have a fullback of Moose Johnson caliber chances are nobody fuckin. Fella's hate when the ugly broad wanna speak morals and chit but be the first to drop her drawls if she gets attention.
This the crazy chit though that happens as well. Most time if dudes are in a group of say 4 and they see 4 chicks its already established who playing fullback this evening IF there is an ugly friend present. Like naw niggah its YOUR turn. lol. Unless that curve ball comes and the knock agreement comes into effect. Meaning if said predetermined fullback gets overt rhythm from any of the non- booga wolves... said dude who kickin it with the non-booga wolf giving the rhythm MUST now become the fullback.. No Question. lol Aww I miss college
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Post by Chal™ on Sept 17, 2010 9:45:01 GMT -5
LOL @ VP
in my 1st crew there were 3 of us: the chick with the boyfriend (but she and a couple junts on the side), the chick who was the undercover hoe (they tried to tell us, but we never saw it at first), and the one who wasn't fuq'n (me ;D)
in my 2nd crew (different place) this time, there we 5 of us:the recently devirginized chick who went on a sex rampage (yea, we had to check her on that), the chick with the steady boyfriend (been together so long they started looking alike), the normal chick (she was just a regular chick :shrugs:, the chick who was always tipsy and STILL not fuq'n (me ;D even the liquor couldn't get me to let someone in my pants lol), and the short, pudgy chick with vanilla splotches all over her face but dark circles on her cheeks (she was the normal chick's cousin, sweet as pie, but still...)
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Post by Chal™ on Sept 17, 2010 9:47:12 GMT -5
in both places, it was already a well know fact that I wasn't putting out so in many cases (especially when you knew the guy just wanted a chick to hump on, the "ugly friend" would get more play than me. I had boyfriends that weren't getting any, why would I have a one night stand with you?
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Post by Vudu_Prince on Sept 17, 2010 10:18:21 GMT -5
LOL @ VP in my 1st crew there were 3 of us: the chick with the boyfriend (but she and a couple junts on the side), the chick who was the undercover hoe (they tried to tell us, but we never saw it at first), and the one who wasn't fuq'n (me ;D) in my 2nd crew (different place) this time, there we 5 of us:the recently devirginized chick who went on a sex rampage (yea, we had to check her on that), the chick with the steady boyfriend (been together so long they started looking alike), the normal chick (she was just a regular chick :shrugs:, the chick who was always tipsy and STILL not fuq'n (me ;D even the liquor couldn't get me to let someone in my pants lol), and the short, pudgy chick with vanilla splotches all over her face but dark circles on her cheeks (she was the normal chick's cousin, sweet as pie, but still...) You wasn't putting out intercourse wise or nothing at all. Don't tell me you were one of those "You can't fuck me but you can eat my box" sistahs? lol
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Post by QueenOH on Sept 17, 2010 10:32:38 GMT -5
4 crew members
In my crew I'm the DD. I don't drink, I'm not looking to screw all I came out to do is dance.
My Best Friend is the drink getter. She flirts with guys for drinks for her and the rest of the crew. After a few drinks she gets mean though. She is more likely to curse you out than screw you.
Crew number 3 is the tease. She'll tease you on the dance floor. Flirt with only you the whole night and still not put out
Crew 4 is the distraction. She is one that causes a distration if we need to leave quickly because sometimes things go down. She in a relationship and will only screw you either (If there is only 3 people then I am also the distraction)
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Post by Chal™ on Sept 17, 2010 10:34:20 GMT -5
You wasn't putting out intercourse wise or nothing at all. Don't tell me you were one of those "You can't fuck me but you can eat my box" sistahs? lol This made me laugh!!!! TECHNICALLY, I WAS NOT, one of those chicks, but there were a few times when.... *fades into a flashback* *smiles* *snaps out of it* You were saying? Oh yea! I can't help it if that fool thought that it would change my mind about everything else. LOL
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Post by IvyByDesign on Sept 17, 2010 13:30:15 GMT -5
LOL @ these questions! no, i've never been the 'ugly chic' in my crews over the years. hahahahaha
i don't have any UGLY FRIENDS. *nose in the air*
now, i do have one um, 'robust figured' friend, but her confidence makes up for it.
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Post by **Dea** on Sept 18, 2010 2:01:46 GMT -5
In my experiences, the less adequate friend (that's a much better way to say it...it's all inclusive!) tends to compensate by becoming more like the Alpha bitch in the group. Unfortunately, a lot of times, that person is me. For instance, the Crazy Wolf bitch from the Boondocks girl admired my sexual openness....in turn...she started fucking the entire freshman class....WE WERE SENIORS.....and this is COLLEGE!!!!! MOFOS that couldn't even drink legally!!! This pissed me off because her activity was obviously supposed to be a mimic of what she understood my sexual life to be but Dea is not a hoe and she would NEVER be ok with doing a Freshman.....(ok, I did have one but he was my Senior project!!...My gift to my dear Alma Mater...and baby was fione!!! but that's beside the point!) So she almost got slapped in the club a couple times because she was doing THE MOST without actually knowing WHO and WHAT she was imitating. It sounds like you got jealous of her because she had more sex than you. Why would it make a difference if a college senior had sex with a college freshman? Class ranking had no importance to me in college. Everyone is an adult, even though some cannot legally buy alcohol. Your story is the reason why women start feeling bad after sleeping around. A woman should never be embarrassed about her sexual conquests. You should have stepped your game up and got some guys too. Jealousy ends friendships all of the time. You have a very vivid imagination sweety! No where in that paragraph did I say I wasn't getting any. All I said was I am not a Hoe. I take offense to the bolded part because I am always for "what you do is what you do...don't be ashamed". But had you paid attention you would have understood that the person she made herself to be was not her true self but moreso what she thought my reflection would look like. Seriously...she went into Senior year having only 2 sexual partners...by the end of the year....well lets just say it was alot more that 2! Read ALL the sentences before you comment next time dude.
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Post by **Dea** on Sept 18, 2010 2:05:53 GMT -5
lmao @ "robust figured friend"!!! CLASSIC!
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Post by LejaOMG on Sept 20, 2010 9:27:53 GMT -5
You wasn't putting out intercourse wise or nothing at all. Don't tell me you were one of those "You can't fuck me but you can eat my box" sistahs? lol yeah, those type of chicks are definitely the worst...
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Post by ReignMan19 on Sept 20, 2010 9:39:35 GMT -5
<--- the ugly friend
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Post by Chal™ on Sept 20, 2010 9:54:17 GMT -5
You wasn't putting out intercourse wise or nothing at all. Don't tell me you were one of those "You can't fuck me but you can eat my box" sistahs? lol yeah, those type of chicks are definitely the worst...
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Post by Chal™ on Jul 1, 2011 15:29:32 GMT -5
Ha!
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Post by Southie on Jul 3, 2011 18:42:30 GMT -5
damn!
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Jul 12, 2011 8:59:59 GMT -5
Hehehe we went out this weekend and a girl with us did not know she was that friend.
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