BLAC-A-MUS PRYME
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Post by BLAC-A-MUS PRYME on Jun 3, 2011 10:13:33 GMT -5
It's been a while, I know...
This is a subject that I thought I would get out as my coming back thread. As some of you may know, I am happily married to QUEENOH and I have been blessed to raise her son. And to me, whether you have assisted in the conception of a child or not, you still have a responsibility to that child to give him/her the love and training he/she will need to survive.
The subject of Father's Day has come to mind. Now some of the ole heads that I know that still appear on this board are great fathers or aspiring to be so. So I raise this question to those fathers:
"What qualities does it take to be a good father?"
And for those that didn't know Faddha's Day is Jun 19th. ;D
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BLAC-A-MUS PRYME
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Post by BLAC-A-MUS PRYME on Jun 3, 2011 10:16:16 GMT -5
In raising a child, love is a factor that is already added in. I had to learn patience when dealing with my son. I have to remember that everything doesn't come easily to everyone and practice makes perfect.
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Post by Noble Work on Jun 3, 2011 16:04:33 GMT -5
Patience is important, I'm learning that as we speak. But understanding and being supportive will fill your love bank up as a Father. The love you'd receive from your family is immeasurable. Again, I'm working on all of this and my 6yr and 9yr daughters think I'm superman. They think I know the answer to every question they have no matter how "out there" it is, can fix anything no matter how many pieces it broke into. But it may have something to do with me protecting them, loving them, telling them they are beautiful. But then it's probably the silly things we talk about when I'm applying nail polish on my 6 yr old's toes when were playing tea party.
On the flip side of that I have to spank them, tell them where they are wrong and correct them in their errors. I do this because I don't want life to spank them, break them down and push them down when they try to get back up. I know they will have there own life with their own issues, I try to be the best teacher I can be to prepare them.
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Post by Sapphire on Jun 3, 2011 21:01:47 GMT -5
I heart everything about this thread (exalt Blac) and Work's nail polish application.  |
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Post by T-Rex91 on Jun 6, 2011 8:07:41 GMT -5
I heart everything about this thread (exalt Blac) and Work's nail polish application. Cosign! A good father is present, not just physically around, but involved in their kids ' lives. When a kid looks back on the experiences, they cherish most, Dad should be central in those. Work's nail polish example is a twist on the commercial where the Dad is cheerleading with his daughter (Oh those boys are much to much!). Good daddies don't worry about looking silly as long as their child is happy. Most of all, a good daddy is an exapmle of the person they want their son to become and their daughter to date/marry. |
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Post by LejaOMG on Jun 6, 2011 8:50:29 GMT -5
Love it!!
{~~ certified Daddy's Girl
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Post by Chal™ on Jun 10, 2011 11:57:33 GMT -5
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Post by Cambist on Jun 13, 2011 9:13:52 GMT -5
Kids develop their character early in life and it comes from what they see you DO. They later begin to understand life and interact using the words and advice you have given them.
So, what i'm saying is that what you DO is more important than what you SAY to them. Once they start taking into consideration what you said, they have already modeled their character after what they saw you do.
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BLAC-A-MUS PRYME
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Post by BLAC-A-MUS PRYME on Jun 13, 2011 15:53:59 GMT -5
Here's my problem...
I am a step father. And in my head I am thinking about the biological parent that takes time out of his "busy" schedule to call at least once every other month. Now my wife has told me numerous times not to even think about him... that soon enough he will erase himself out of the equation. But I can't help at times thinking that once my son gets older he will make a decision to live with his father. So I am trying to be involved in my son's life the best way I know how. And Queen is right [just don't let her know it].
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Post by QueenOH on Jun 13, 2011 15:57:33 GMT -5
You spend way too much time worrying about his father. He is more likely going to move in with your mom so he can travel with her all the time.
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Post by Chal™ on Jun 13, 2011 16:03:48 GMT -5
i like this couple. lol
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BLAC-A-MUS PRYME
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Post by BLAC-A-MUS PRYME on Jun 13, 2011 16:25:32 GMT -5
@queen >> LMBO! you know my mom would have left him somewhere on the highway to fend for himself!
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BLAC-A-MUS PRYME
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Post by BLAC-A-MUS PRYME on Jun 13, 2011 16:27:39 GMT -5
Are we sill the only IRL couple on the board. I know there were some e-flings here and there, but nothing too serious... that we know of  |
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Jun 14, 2011 9:19:50 GMT -5
Great thread we need more men like yall!
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Post by QueenOH on Jun 14, 2011 9:33:15 GMT -5
@queen >> LMBO! you know my mom would have left him somewhere on the highway to fend for himself! You know your mom spoils him rotten. She gets him anything he asks for |
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Post by LejaOMG on Jun 14, 2011 11:12:34 GMT -5
Are we sill the only IRL couple on the board. I know there were some e-flings here and there, but nothing too serious... that we know of Not "still." The term you're looking for is "again." |
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BLAC-A-MUS PRYME
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Post by BLAC-A-MUS PRYME on Jun 16, 2011 16:38:34 GMT -5
@rare >> Thanks
@leja >> UGH, I would have thought for sure Damie would have settled down, but then again, look who I am talking about! LOL! J/K!
@queen >> OK, I was thinking we were talking about the father... you know the one you "accidentally" hit with the car!
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Post by QueenOH on Jun 17, 2011 7:27:42 GMT -5
Will you quit bringing that up! You are suppose to know that alleged criminal acts should not be brought up in public!
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Post by T-Rex91 on Jun 20, 2011 9:29:32 GMT -5
I am so pleasantly surprised that I saw many less "HFD to all the ain't ish daddies" messages. Either women are growing up or I (unknowingly) upgraded my circle of FB friends.
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