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Post by LejaOMG on Oct 20, 2009 12:30:09 GMT -5
Renegades are perps to me. This is the only way I can imagine someone knowing all the ish and still not having a certificate. Depends on how they act. If they act like members, knowing that they're not, and making no effort to become legit, then...perps it is. I don't respect the members who "made" them either. I hate perping and support of perphood in all its forms. |
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Post by Kyng of JDs on Oct 20, 2009 12:41:00 GMT -5
but what if you know the challenges... what if you know the ritual... what if you know <fill in blank here>... Oh, thats right, your perpin ass still aint on the national roster. PERPS!! <= slightly bitter because I almost helped a perp get a job... I invited him to my chapter meeting. He found every excuse, I took them all away, so he came. Of course, new "brothers" must be verified. He failed. I was beyond pissed becase I wrote him a letter of rec to a former employee of mine. I had to call and say disregard my letter. Funny thing was my LB had to walk him out of the meeting area. The chapter didnt want me doing anything crazy to him. |
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Post by DamieQue™ on Oct 20, 2009 13:29:03 GMT -5
When did you discover he was a perp? How did it happen? Did you confront him? I invited him to my chapter meeting. He found every excuse, I took them all away, so he came. Of course, new "brothers" must be verified. He failed. I was beyond pissed becase I wrote him a letter of rec to a former employee of mine. I had to call and say disregard my letter. Funny thing was my LB had to walk him out of the meeting area. The chapter didnt want me doing anything crazy to him. |
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Post by ReignMan19 on Oct 20, 2009 13:34:18 GMT -5
Can you imagine the car ride to the meeting.... that cat was probably taking shots, popping pills...
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Post by LejaOMG on Oct 20, 2009 13:41:55 GMT -5
Maybe he thought he could fool an entire chapter. Loser.
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Post by Kyng of JDs on Oct 20, 2009 13:42:49 GMT -5
I invited him to my chapter meeting. He found every excuse, I took them all away, so he came. Of course, new "brothers" must be verified. He failed. I was beyond pissed becase I wrote him a letter of rec to a former employee of mine. I had to call and say disregard my letter. Funny thing was my LB had to walk him out of the meeting area. The chapter didnt want me doing anything crazy to him. yeah. He worked at enterprise and I was wearing letters. His coworker said he was an Alpha (apparently he told her). He knew enough. So we met, had a couple of drinks. He said a couple of things that sounded off, but I was new compared to him so... I told him he needed to get active, especially in this area then his employment opportunities will open up. Hell, I agreed to help him out. Then I invited him to brunch at our meeting time. He said he was available. Next day, I told him we will go eat after I show face. The rest is history. |
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Post by LejaOMG on Oct 20, 2009 13:45:30 GMT -5
Ohhh, so he didn't know ya'll were going to chapter meeting? Wack-a-licious.
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Post by Kyng of JDs on Oct 20, 2009 13:50:46 GMT -5
He did. I told him that I had to present the night before. It would only take a sec... He just assumed that I would blow the meeting off.
Besides, Who doesnt mind visiting a chapter?
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Post by DamieQue™ on Oct 20, 2009 13:51:35 GMT -5
LOL - he actually showed up? Oh yeah - that IS crazy. Matter of fact that is insane. How did he come to represent himself as an Alpha though? Did someone introduce you to him as another Alpha and he couldn't get out of the lie or something? yeah. He worked at enterprise and I was wearing letters. His coworker said he was an Alpha (apparently he told her). He knew enough. So we met, had a couple of drinks. He said a couple of things that sounded off, but I was new compared to him so... I told him he needed to get active, especially in this area then his employment opportunities will open up. Hell, I agreed to help him out. Then I invited him to brunch at our meeting time. He said he was available. Next day, I told him we will go eat after I show face. The rest is history. |
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Post by ReignMan19 on Oct 20, 2009 13:53:58 GMT -5
He did. I told him that I had to present the night before. It would only take a sec... He just assumed that I would blow the meeting off. Besides, Who doesnt mind visiting a chapter? So he rode with you to the meeting?? |
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Post by Kyng of JDs on Oct 20, 2009 13:58:39 GMT -5
yes. apparently he left on foot.
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Post by DamieQue™ on Oct 20, 2009 14:02:01 GMT -5
yes. apparently he left on foot. |
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Post by ReignMan19 on Oct 20, 2009 14:02:08 GMT -5
yes. apparently he left on foot. again imagine the stomach turning ride to the meeting.. i bet he was thinking of ways to jump out of the car... before he knew it he was there... |
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Post by DamieQue™ on Oct 20, 2009 14:04:38 GMT -5
yes. apparently he left on foot. again imagine the stomach turning ride to the meeting.. i bet he was thinking of ways to jump out of the car... before he knew it he was there... Perp's Thought: If he slows down just enough going around this corner I can dive out with minimal injury |
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Post by Kyng of JDs on Oct 20, 2009 14:06:38 GMT -5
LOL at Damie and Reign
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Post by Oren Ishii on Oct 20, 2009 15:13:08 GMT -5
This is both hilarious...and pathetic SMH
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Post by BKupInHere on Oct 20, 2009 17:15:09 GMT -5
yes. apparently he left on foot. ...will a foot in his a$$,I bet. Did your chapter remind you of that incident?(like tease you about it...or you couldnt "refer" anyone else unless they showed you a membership card?  ) |
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Post by juschill on Oct 20, 2009 18:47:45 GMT -5
OMG i didnt know Blackplanet was still runnin!!!
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Post by Kyng of JDs on Oct 20, 2009 18:47:48 GMT -5
yes. apparently he left on foot. ...will a foot in his a$$,I bet. Did your chapter remind you of that incident?(like tease you about it...or you couldnt "refer" anyone else unless they showed you a membership card? ) Not so much. I was brand new at the time so... But, now I am pretty sensitive and I used different means to tell the difference between a perp and a member now. |
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Post by Oren Ishii on Oct 21, 2009 13:24:05 GMT -5
OMG, I thought it...but I didn't ask. Dang, BK! LOL yes. apparently he left on foot. ...will a foot in his a$$,I bet. Did your chapter remind you of that incident?(like tease you about it...or you couldnt "refer" anyone else unless they showed you a membership card? ) |
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Post by Troopa1911 on Oct 21, 2009 15:45:42 GMT -5
WOW...
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Post by Coldfront06 on Oct 21, 2009 17:20:27 GMT -5
I feel like I could start a reality show just from the Greek related stuff I've seen at this job. Today, a Sigma was telling me how he initially wanted to pledge Alpha at Hampton but they were assholes to him. So after he graduated and went back home to Minnesota, he looked into the grad chapter there and they were also assholes. His deceased father had been a Sigma, so one of his father's friends invited him to join. He said "I didn't have to do anything, so thats why I'm a Sigma now."
I just nodded my head as he was digging this hole...LOL
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Post by BKupInHere on Oct 21, 2009 17:34:52 GMT -5
...will a foot in his a$$,I bet. Did your chapter remind you of that incident?(like tease you about it...or you couldnt "refer" anyone else unless they showed you a membership card? ) Not so much. I was brand new at the time so... But, now I am pretty sensitive and I used different means to tell the difference between a perp and a member now. That's great you took the high road. You had every right to tear homie a new one the next time you saw him. |
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Post by BKupInHere on Oct 21, 2009 17:36:19 GMT -5
I feel like I could start a reality show just from the Greek related stuff I've seen at this job. Today, a Sigma was telling me how he initially wanted to pledge Alpha at Hampton but they were assholes to him. So after he graduated and went back home to Minnesota, he looked into the grad chapter there and they were also assholes. His deceased father had been a Sigma, so one of his father's friends invited him to join. He said "I didn't have to do anything, so thats why I'm a Sigma now." I just nodded my head as he was digging this hole...LOL This ^^^ shows why some people talk 30 seconds more than they should have. @ Coldy Cold: I hope you gave him the "WTF" look! |
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Post by Robelite on Oct 22, 2009 10:30:02 GMT -5
The ONE aspect about many (not necessarily all) of these incidents of perps, ghosts, fakes..is that in alot of cases they are ENCOURGED to perp by OUR OWN BROTHERS AND SORORS!
Think about it:
How many of us have heard of situations where chapters that have oftentimes been suspended, are continuing to carry out clandestine initiations...making folks who obviously are illegitimate because if your chapter is suspended, it can't LEGALLY conduct an initiation. There is a chapter here in Alabama that was doing just that!
Some things we can't control; a kook going out and purchasing paraphernalia and car accessories just like he/she was duly initiated.
Other things we can; some of our warped-minded members who have their own agendas outside of what our respective constitutions say, and want their own chapter within a chapter, or a situation like the one I mentioned above. One thing is a constant in either of these situations....these perps, ghosts and fakes are more damned trouble than they are worth!!
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Post by Troopa1911 on Oct 22, 2009 17:02:56 GMT -5
I feel like I could start a reality show just from the Greek related stuff I've seen at this job. Today, a Sigma was telling me how he initially wanted to pledge Alpha at Hampton but they were assholes to him. So after he graduated and went back home to Minnesota, he looked into the grad chapter there and they were also assholes. His deceased father had been a Sigma, so one of his father's friends invited him to join. He said "I didn't have to do anything, so thats why I'm a Sigma now." I just nodded my head as he was digging this hole...LOL |
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Post by pinkngreen06 on Oct 25, 2009 11:53:07 GMT -5
I feel like I could start a reality show just from the Greek related stuff I've seen at this job. Today, a Sigma was telling me how he initially wanted to pledge Alpha at Hampton but they were assholes to him. So after he graduated and went back home to Minnesota, he looked into the grad chapter there and they were also assholes. His deceased father had been a Sigma, so one of his father's friends invited him to join. He said "I didn't have to do anything, so thats why I'm a Sigma now." I just nodded my head as he was digging this hole...LOL This ^^^ shows why some people talk 30 seconds more than they should have. @ Coldy Cold: I hope you gave him the "WTF" look! They damn sure should! |
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Post by AKAShannon on Oct 25, 2009 16:41:02 GMT -5
The ONE aspect about many (not necessarily all) of these incidents of perps, ghosts, fakes..is that in alot of cases they are ENCOURGED to perp by OUR OWN BROTHERS AND SORORS! Think about it: How many of us have heard of situations where chapters that have oftentimes been suspended, are continuing to carry out clandestine initiations...making folks who obviously are illegitimate because if your chapter is suspended, it can't LEGALLY conduct an initiation. There is a chapter here in Alabama that was doing just that! Some things we can't control; a kook going out and purchasing paraphernalia and car accessories just like he/she was duly initiated. Other things we can; some of our warped-minded members who have their own agendas outside of what our respective constitutions say, and want their own chapter within a chapter, or a situation like the one I mentioned above. One thing is a constant in either of these situations....these perps, ghosts and fakes are more damned trouble than they are worth!! AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Post by Search1906 on Oct 25, 2009 21:25:34 GMT -5
I feel like I could start a reality show just from the Greek related stuff I've seen at this job. Today, a Sigma was telling me how he initially wanted to pledge Alpha at Hampton but they were assholes to him. So after he graduated and went back home to Minnesota, he looked into the grad chapter there and they were also assholes. His deceased father had been a Sigma, so one of his father's friends invited him to join. He said "I didn't have to do anything, so thats why I'm a Sigma now." I just nodded my head as he was digging this hole...LOL How old is this dude? If he is in between the ages of 30-34 he was probably at Hampton with me. I wonder if I know him. LOL *devious laugh* |
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Post by pinkngreen06 on Nov 30, 2009 22:36:24 GMT -5
So Here is an update on my last post in this thread. *Recap* While in the Jamba Juice on 86ht St some dude threw up hooks and barked like he was a Que when in fact he wasn't .
So fast forward to yesterday. My girlfriend and I were in the area and thought we'd see if he was still working there almost as a goof. So low & behold he was still there. I brought a bottle of water (yes I went to Jamba Juice & brought a bottle of water) and while at the register we inquired about what dudes name was. So the woman at the register told us and so we walked over to say hi.
So we said hi to ___________ and he looked up and said hey. So we asked him if he remembered us. He said yeah he did. Then we asked how his process was going. I guess dude aint learn his lesson the last time we were there 'cause he said that his ass & his legs hurt. He was then asked if he was being hazed. Dude said, didn't I say my ass and my legs hurt. My homegirl and I said goodbye and he threw us the peace sign.
Now as we left we realized that now he was confirming he was being hazed. So my homegirl tried to call her Que friend but she wasn't able to get through however I was able to get through to one of mine.
Frankly I kinda feel bad for the org since dude clearly is just giving info up. I wonder if he's gonna make it.
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