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Post by huey on Jun 11, 2009 9:50:43 GMT -5
I know some Greeks have a no-dating Greek rule. If your one of them why?
If you dated a Greek from a certain school, can you date another from the same school. Should you date Greeks from same organization? The same chapter? Linebrothers/Linesisters?
What's a no go. Whats good for take off?
Any stories?
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Post by LejaOMG on Jun 11, 2009 9:59:18 GMT -5
Good one. I've dated more than one person in the same chapter, but the chapter was 100+ people, so...idk
I won't date more than one person on a line or in a small chapter (or from the same UG chapter) because I RE-FUSE to acquire the label of having been "ran through by Chi Sigma" or whatever.
I imagine this gets really real in Blue & White. I've been on a Sigma diet since 2007.
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Post by coldfront06 on Jun 11, 2009 10:19:19 GMT -5
I wouldn't date line sisters or two Sorors who were really close. But if its a megachapter with 200+ people, I'm not going to necessarily say I shouldn't date more than one member of that chapter.
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Post by Blu on Jun 11, 2009 10:35:06 GMT -5
I always put limitations on dating Sorors from my yard when I was in undergrad. I witnessed too many negative side effects that created bad blood....
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Post by coldfront06 on Jun 11, 2009 10:36:59 GMT -5
I always put limitations on dating Sorors from my yard when I was in undergrad. I witnessed too many negative side effects that created bad blood.... That must have sucked b/c TU had some nice Zetas lol.
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Post by huey on Jun 11, 2009 10:39:28 GMT -5
Good one. I've dated more than one person in the same chapter, but the chapter was 100+ people, so...idk I won't date more than one person on a line or in a small chapter (or from the same UG chapter) because I RE-FUSE to acquire the label of having been "ran through by Chi Sigma" or whatever. I imagine this gets really real in Blue & White. I've been on a Sigma diet since 2007. Constitutionally bound or not, Blue and White Weekend always looked like a big Blue and White orgy.
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Post by Blu on Jun 11, 2009 10:42:41 GMT -5
I always put limitations on dating Sorors from my yard when I was in undergrad. I witnessed too many negative side effects that created bad blood.... That must have sucked b/c TU had some nice Zetas lol. True lol, but after witnessing some things, it got easier lol. Roadtripping definitely made things easier lol
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Post by LejaOMG on Jun 11, 2009 10:45:14 GMT -5
Good one. I've dated more than one person in the same chapter, but the chapter was 100+ people, so...idk I won't date more than one person on a line or in a small chapter (or from the same UG chapter) because I RE-FUSE to acquire the label of having been "ran through by Chi Sigma" or whatever. I imagine this gets really real in Blue & White. I've been on a Sigma diet since 2007. Constitutionally bound or not, Blue and White Weekend always looked like a big Blue and White orgy. which is why I didn't even pass through Gainesville on my roadtrip to ATL from Tallahassee last week, lol. I've seen the pics. Hotmessazzness.
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Post by Blu on Jun 11, 2009 10:51:02 GMT -5
Constitutionally bound or not, Blue and White Weekend always looked like a big Blue and White orgy. which is why I didn't even pass through Gainesville on my roadtrip to ATL from Tallahassee last week, lol. I've seen the pics. Hotmessazzness. I agree LOL.... (That and I don't need no embarrassing videos on youtube...)
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Post by frozenmenace on Jun 11, 2009 11:27:21 GMT -5
I don't put any restrictions on myself. However, I had a Zeta friend who refused to date any Sigmas. She said it was incest.
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Post by FatalDST on Jun 11, 2009 11:56:19 GMT -5
Are we keeping this thread real or should I tip toe around my response? LOL
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Post by frozenmenace on Jun 11, 2009 11:57:45 GMT -5
Fatal, when have you EVER tiptoed around?? LOL!
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Post by Oldskool on Jun 11, 2009 12:02:52 GMT -5
I say date who you want. In the days of yesteryear, many Sigmas married Zetas and are still married today. I am married to an Alpha. My line sister is married to an Alpha. I think the younger generation puts too much emphasis on things that don't matter and not enough on things that do.[/b]
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Post by T-Rex91 on Jun 11, 2009 12:03:54 GMT -5
Won't win me fans but I had a "no Que" rule. I had some bad experiences in UG with them and formed a bias. Current BF is the only one I've ever dated. I didn't know he was a Que until our second date and by then i was smitten. It's interesting how things turn out.
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Post by FatalDST on Jun 11, 2009 12:24:42 GMT -5
I had a no que rule too.. we had an incident in my UG chapter where a like 2 bruhs had gone thru several of the chapter members! LOL I messed when 1 since I crossed, it wasnt so bad though... he wasnt a real owt bruh, and when he did kick it, he was kinda quite and mellow
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Post by Bathroom Model on Jun 11, 2009 12:27:29 GMT -5
I say date who you want. In the days of yesteryear, many Sigmas married Zetas and are still married today. I am married to an Alpha. My line sister is married to an Alpha. I think the younger generation puts too much emphasis on things that don't matter and not enough on things that do. [/b][/quote] i agree why limit yourself or stereotype people. I was just defending the kappas the other day to my friend.
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Post by FatalDST on Jun 11, 2009 12:31:12 GMT -5
<-- limits myself
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Post by THE emPRISS on Jun 11, 2009 13:41:14 GMT -5
I wouldnt date LBs. In UG, one per chapter. Now, eh...the same rule applies as if they are non-greek. No close friends. In greekdom there is 3 degrees of separation so if you limit yourself to someone who knows someone....why bother? Ive dated a dude that my LS dated but that was 10 years prior. I asked her before accepting a date with him and she was cool with it. Plus shes married now.
Ive dated everything but a Sigma and Iota. I prefer Ques and Alphas. I also prefer greek over non-greek.
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Post by Julie Art on Jun 15, 2009 9:04:04 GMT -5
Bump (Method to my madness, bear with!)
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Post by Julie Art on Jun 16, 2009 13:17:21 GMT -5
Bump (Method to my madness, AGAIN!!!!!! Bear with!)
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Post by huey on Jul 9, 2009 12:37:28 GMT -5
I don't think im comfortable no more wit dating Greeks. shit is messy.
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Post by huey on Jul 9, 2009 13:25:50 GMT -5
LEJA!!!!!!!!
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Post by LejaOMG on Jul 9, 2009 13:26:17 GMT -5
lol @ you calling me. I was definitely reading too
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Post by huey on Jul 9, 2009 13:26:45 GMT -5
Im mad you responded so fast lmao'
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Post by huey on Jul 9, 2009 13:28:40 GMT -5
your soror tryna play me!!!!!!!!
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Post by LejaOMG on Jul 9, 2009 13:29:35 GMT -5
I need to round out my D9 list before I swear off Greeks. Still haven't had a Que (at all) or a Kappa (for real-for real)
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Post by LejaOMG on Jul 9, 2009 13:30:27 GMT -5
your soror tryna play me!!!!!!!! You didn't touch the brand did you? Lots of dudes end up bass ackwards after experiencing... "THE HIT"
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Post by huey on Jul 9, 2009 13:32:18 GMT -5
your soror tryna play me!!!!!!!! You didn't touch the brand did you? Lots of dudes end up bass ackwards after experiencing... "THE HIT"This the "6 month rule" girl
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Post by LejaOMG on Jul 9, 2009 13:35:02 GMT -5
You didn't touch the brand did you? Lots of dudes end up bass ackwards after experiencing... "THE HIT"This the "6 month rule" girl Well as the song say, "we ain't gotta go all the waaaay, but baby we can do some thaaaangs" but no really, I thought you already decided that you wasn't beat for her. She's still around?
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Post by 123Diva on Jul 9, 2009 13:36:41 GMT -5
LOL @ this convo happening in the thread!
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