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Post by THE emPRISS on May 23, 2009 23:43:57 GMT -5
Total acceptance... Dat's some mind game we playing on ourselves... reading WAYY more into ish. ESPECIALLY if the dude hasn't asked for it. Plus, I'm fromt he frame of mind - if dude is not your hubby - he's inclined to believe the dude before him could've been "special" too. :-\ You know - the whole "I've never done this with anyone until you" - if he ain't hubby/your first, he may be wondering what makes him so special. I dunno, maybe I'm jaded. Um...nobody is talking about swallowing with everyone you blow and HOPEFULLY folk aint blowing EVERYONE.... Maybe its just me but it kinda goes without saying that if he's special enough to blow then he ought to be special enough to swaller....yea, swaller.....lol Plus, Log...you aint done it so HURSH! lol |
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on May 24, 2009 0:10:56 GMT -5
*Steps in to say*
I hope you AIN'T blowing everyone anyway...Im gonna need for you ladies and gentlemen to realize if at the end of the day you are saying I do to this person and he/she say I do to you...That person should be worthy of your submission and all that you have to offer and vice versa...If he is NOT than why marry him...What you WON'T do another will...Thats right another will...
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Post by BKupInHere on May 26, 2009 10:13:04 GMT -5
*Steps in to say* I hope you AIN'T blowing everyone anyway...Im gonna need for you ladies and gentlemen to realize if at the end of the day you are saying I do to this person and he/she say I do to you...That person should be worthy of your submission and all that you have to offer and vice versa...If he is NOT than why marry him...What you WON'T do another will...Thats right another will... real talk! Exalt for my girl! ;D <--heard it makes you gain weight...LOL  |
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Post by Chal™ on May 26, 2009 10:16:28 GMT -5
lmao @ VP. HUSH!!!
^5 @ MV: another one DEFINITELY will
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Post by 123Diva on May 26, 2009 10:20:58 GMT -5
*Steps in to say* I hope you AIN'T blowing everyone anyway...Im gonna need for you ladies and gentlemen to realize if at the end of the day you are saying I do to this person and he/she say I do to you...That person should be worthy of your submission and all that you have to offer and vice versa...If he is NOT than why marry him...What you WON'T do another will...Thats right another will... While I understand your overall point, I don't think that a woman's willingness to swallow or lack thereof should be the litmus test for whether or not a man is worthy of her spending the rest of her life with him. Some women may just not like to swallow. PERIOD. And not EVERY dude sees it as such a huge deal. Hypothetically speaking, if a dude wants to leave me because I don't swallow  , I will open the door for him, and maybe even call him a cab... There are so many other ways - sexual and non sexual - (one could argue even more important ways) to demonstrate submission and/or complete acceptance of your man. |
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Post by THE emPRISS on May 26, 2009 10:20:45 GMT -5
*Steps in to say* I hope you AIN'T blowing everyone anyway...Im gonna need for you ladies and gentlemen to realize if at the end of the day you are saying I do to this person and he/she say I do to you...That person should be worthy of your submission and all that you have to offer and vice versa...If he is NOT than why marry him...What you WON'T do another will...Thats right another will... real talk! Exalt for my girl! ;D <--heard it makes you gain weight...LOL And makes your skin smooth.... ROFL |
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Post by coldfront06 on May 26, 2009 10:37:59 GMT -5
*Steps in to say* I hope you AIN'T blowing everyone anyway...Im gonna need for you ladies and gentlemen to realize if at the end of the day you are saying I do to this person and he/she say I do to you...That person should be worthy of your submission and all that you have to offer and vice versa...If he is NOT than why marry him...What you WON'T do another will...Thats right another will... While I understand your overall point, I don't think that a woman's willingness to swallow or lack thereof should be the litmus test for whether or not a man is worthy of her spending the rest of her life with him. Some women may just not like to swallow. PERIOD. And not EVERY dude sees it as such a huge deal. Hypothetically speaking, if a dude wants to leave me because I don't swallow , I will open the door for him, and maybe even call him a cab... There are so many other ways - sexual and non sexual - (one could argue even more important ways) to demonstrate submission and/or complete acceptance of your man.Like cooking? ;D  |
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Post by Chal™ on May 26, 2009 10:39:47 GMT -5
lmao @ Cold. I am totally convinces that FOOD is the way to get you to do anything. lol
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Post by 123Diva on May 26, 2009 10:41:10 GMT -5
While I understand your overall point, I don't think that a woman's willingness to swallow or lack thereof should be the litmus test for whether or not a man is worthy of her spending the rest of her life with him. Some women may just not like to swallow. PERIOD. And not EVERY dude sees it as such a huge deal. Hypothetically speaking, if a dude wants to leave me because I don't swallow , I will open the door for him, and maybe even call him a cab... There are so many other ways - sexual and non sexual - (one could argue even more important ways) to demonstrate submission and/or complete acceptance of your man.Like cooking? ;D RIGHT! At 2am in the morning  Ackee and saltfish ;D |
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Post by coldfront06 on May 26, 2009 10:45:14 GMT -5
Like cooking? ;D RIGHT! At 2am in the morning Ackee and saltfish ;D |
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on May 26, 2009 12:14:19 GMT -5
I'm NOT saying it is about him leaving you because you DON'T swallow..I'm saying its all about submissiveness (sp?) to your husband/man....
A man swallows you everytime he goes down on you...How many times have you kissed him afterwards...Its all about acceptance...Hell I know I taste good and so does he...and yet again the goal is NOT about swallowing everyone but its about you giving him your all.... and again LADIES and GENTLEMEN what you WON'T DO ANOTHER will
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Post by 123Diva on May 26, 2009 12:20:47 GMT -5
I'm NOT saying it is about him leaving you because you DON'T swallow..I'm saying its all about submissiveness (sp?) to your husband/man.... A man swallows you everytime he goes down on you...How many times have you kissed him afterwards...Its all about acceptance...Hell I know I taste good and so does he...and yet again the goal is NOT about swallowing everyone but its about you giving him your all.... and again LADIES and GENTLEMEN what you WON'T DO ANOTHER will Okay. My point is that not swallowing doesn't necessarily mean not giving your all... And yes a man does swallow when he goes down on a woman, but it's not like each time the woman is "squirting", which to me would be the true equivalent of "swallowing" a man's soldiers. <-----pauses and exits thread so as not to cause this thread to be moved into the After Dark section |
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on May 26, 2009 12:26:42 GMT -5
LOL that is true but we aren't talking about other submissive factors we are talking about swallowing....
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Post by Prissy New Year!!! on May 26, 2009 12:29:34 GMT -5
I'm NOT saying it is about him leaving you because you DON'T swallow..I'm saying its all about submissiveness (sp?) to your husband/man.... A man swallows you everytime he goes down on you...How many times have you kissed him afterwards...Its all about acceptance...Hell I know I taste good and so does he...and yet again the goal is NOT about swallowing everyone but its about you giving him your all.... and again LADIES and GENTLEMEN what you WON'T DO ANOTHER will Okay. My point is that not swallowing doesn't necessarily mean not giving your all... And yes a man does swallow when he goes down on a woman, but it's not like each time the woman is "squirting", which to me would be the true equivalent of "swallowing" a man's soldiers. <-----pauses and exits thread so as not to cause this thread to be moved into the After Dark section I agree. I don't swallow, and I feel like I should clarify, I don't allow him to "finish" in my mouth. I simply cannot bring myself to do that, it doesn't mean that I don't love my husband. I show my love and devotion to him in so many ways, and he doesn't doubt my love for him. Maybe it is a generational thing, but I don't remember the idea of swallowing or spitting being discussed in my high school/college days. Maybe folks were doing it, but just not talking about it. I remember thinking that oral sex was just soooooooo nasty and I swore I would never do it. They had a segment on The View Friday where they interviewed this lady who wrote a book about how prevalent oral sex is in middle school. The girls are saying that holding hands is more intimate than providing oral sex for someone. Maybe this is just a sign of the times... |
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Post by 123Diva on May 26, 2009 12:35:27 GMT -5
I was about to write something in response to Prissy's post, and then I realized it would really be TMI and that I'm too private IRL for that.
<----scratching freshly braided head wondering how da hell did OOA bring her outta her shell...
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Post by Prissy New Year!!! on May 26, 2009 12:41:31 GMT -5
I was about to write something in response to Prissy's post, and then I realized it would really be TMI and that I'm too private IRL for that. <----scratching freshly braided head wondering how da hell did OOA bring her outta her shell... We are all friends here, go ahead and share...we won't tell anyone... |
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Post by 123Diva on May 26, 2009 12:45:57 GMT -5
I was about to write something in response to Prissy's post, and then I realized it would really be TMI and that I'm too private IRL for that. <----scratching freshly braided head wondering how da hell did OOA bring her outta her shell... We are all friends here, go ahead and share...we won't tell anyone... LOL...I will PM you. |
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Post by DamieQue™ on May 26, 2009 13:03:13 GMT -5
Aight... I'll say it...
...don't swallow me. The brain surgery is enough for me. Catch it in your mouth? Sure why not. Swallow? Naw... I just don't need THAT much "freak". Catching it is enough...
...y0u get to swallowing on some ol 2 girls and a cup ish and you're gonna exceed the "whore" threshold on my Madonna-whore construct. This all assumes you are my woman on some level... if not please disregard all the above
*Remembers the sexually active Christians thread - puts head down and walks out - interpret that however you like*
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Post by 123Diva on May 26, 2009 13:07:31 GMT -5
Aight... I'll say it...
...don't swallow me. The brain surgery is enough for me. Catch it in your mouth? Sure why not. Swallow? Naw... I just don't need THAT much "freak". Catching it is enough...
...y0u get to swallowing on some ol 2 girls and a cup ish and you're gonna exceed the "whore" threshold on my Madonna-whore construct. This all assumes you are my woman on some level... if not please disregard all the above
*Remembers the sexually active Christians thread - puts head down and walks out - interpret that however you like* damn Damie...  <----LMAO Thank you for that perspective though. EXALT! |
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Post by No Screen Name on May 26, 2009 13:17:44 GMT -5
Wait, Diva, you think that was worthy of an exalt? Huh.  I guess errybody ain't raised the same. *exits thread looking down on Diva* |
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Post by THE emPRISS on May 26, 2009 13:20:47 GMT -5
Aight... I'll say it...
...don't swallow me. The brain surgery is enough for me. Catch it in your mouth? Sure why not. Swallow? Naw... I just don't need THAT much "freak". Catching it is enough...
...y0u get to swallowing on some ol 2 girls and a cup ish and you're gonna exceed the "whore" threshold on my Madonna-whore construct. This all assumes you are my woman on some level... if not please disregard all the above
*Remembers the sexually active Christians thread - puts head down and walks out - interpret that however you like* *eeeeew* So there is a difference b/n catching and swallowing? I mean beyond the ACTUAL difference...I just assumed that it was all inclusive...if its in your mouth, *sings* You swallllllered it... IMO I was having visions of people doing the deed, then hammerjackin til he was done...thinking..."thats how that ish winds up in your eye"... Clearly, we were miscommunicating here ...lol <---serious |
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Post by 123Diva on May 26, 2009 13:22:10 GMT -5
Wait, Diva, you think that was worthy of an exalt? Huh. I guess errybody ain't raised the same. *exits thread looking down on Diva* I'm exalting the honesty of his comment. As for the whore aspect of it, I don't necessarily agree with that but it is how Damie feels and at least he expressed the fact that not ALL men view swallowing as a positive thing. I respect the fact that he expressed an opinion from a male perspective that shatters a myth and a perspective that was lacking in the thread. He probably broke some kinda man-law too by saying that he prefers his woman to NOT swallow. |
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Post by No Screen Name on May 26, 2009 13:25:43 GMT -5
Oh, I see. And Diva, I hope you know I'm just funnin' ya. ;D
I think there is a marked difference.
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Post by 123Diva on May 26, 2009 13:27:11 GMT -5
Oh, I see. And Diva, I hope you know I'm just funnin' ya. ;DI think there is a marked difference. Okay...please ignore my PM ;D ::shrugs:: I was confused |
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Post by THE emPRISS on May 26, 2009 13:27:40 GMT -5
Oh, I see. And Diva, I hope you know I'm just funnin' ya. ;D I think there is a marked difference. Wait....so we are talking about like gulping and injesting? Not "backwash"? *looks around* Ive clearly been in a whole 'nother convo |
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Post by 123Diva on May 26, 2009 13:29:06 GMT -5
Oh, I see. And Diva, I hope you know I'm just funnin' ya. ;D I think there is a marked difference. Wait....so we are talking about like gulping and injesting? Not "backwash"? *looks around* Ive clearly been in a whole 'nother convo Priss... LOL. iDIED. Yes. Truly Swallowing. Do you see why I've been saying what I've been saying now. I'm not really fond of the thought of my dude's soldiers marching down my throat... |
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Post by No Screen Name on May 26, 2009 13:30:28 GMT -5
Yes, IMO they are different. One is tolerable...the other...UGH, I just can't. And this is coming from someone who eats chittlins.
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Post by THE emPRISS on May 26, 2009 13:30:48 GMT -5
Wait....so we are talking about like gulping and injesting? Not "backwash"? *looks around* Ive clearly been in a whole 'nother convo Priss... LOL. iDIED. Yes. Truly Swallowing. Do you see why I've been saying what I've been saying now. I'm not really fond of the thought of my dude's soldiers marching down my throat... Well....it happens sometimes...accidently...I heard.... I also heard it makes you feel like you have rocks in your belly...allegedly... I'd advise against it...based on what Ive heard. Allegedly. |
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Post by LogAKAlly <3'n Keef on May 26, 2009 13:31:27 GMT -5
Aight... I'll say it...
...don't swallow me. The brain surgery is enough for me. Catch it in your mouth? Sure why not. Swallow? Naw... I just don't need THAT much "freak". Catching it is enough...
...y0u get to swallowing on some ol 2 girls and a cup ish and you're gonna exceed the "whore" threshold on my Madonna-whore construct. This all assumes you are my woman on some level... if not please disregard all the above
*Remembers the sexually active Christians thread - puts head down and walks out - interpret that however you like* damn Damie... <----LMAO Thank you for that perspective though. EXALT! 5 post ago u hit 4Gs I look at it like Anal Sex. If I don't want to do it and it's that important to him - clearly we are NOT compatible, he is more than welcome to find the chick who WILL AND I will find the dude who WON'T. My def of swallowing is taking it down your throat and digesting it. |
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Post by THE emPRISS on May 26, 2009 13:31:42 GMT -5
Yes, IMO they are different. One is tolerable...the other...UGH, I just can't. And this is coming from someone who eats chittlins. ROFLMAO @ reference to chittlins.... hmmm...iono which is worse?! |
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, I will open the door for him, and maybe even call him a cab...
