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Post by Lighthouse on Feb 21, 2008 21:46:09 GMT -5
Thanks for coming so quickly. I asked you here for two reasons. The first was so we could finish our conversation from earlier. Like I said, I don't want to disrupt your life. I just felt that you needed to understand why I left so abruptly and why I came back so unexpectedly.
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Post by coldfront06 on Feb 21, 2008 21:48:47 GMT -5
Well I would like to understand. I heard you left because you e-hated me and had enough of me going back and forth between you and Spring. Is that the case?
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Post by Lighthouse on Feb 21, 2008 21:51:47 GMT -5
Yes I did get tired of the back and forth but a man will only do what you allow him to do. Spring and I both allowed you to play games w/ our lives. But that was not the reason I left. I had to leave for his sake.
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Post by coldfront06 on Feb 21, 2008 21:52:37 GMT -5
"His" sake?? Who is he??
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Post by Lighthouse on Feb 21, 2008 21:54:43 GMT -5
He was in danger here. And I couldn't allow him to get hurt b/c of our foolishness. The easiest way to protect him was to leave. I know it was extreme but, I just couldn't...
**starts sobbing**
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Post by coldfront06 on Feb 21, 2008 21:57:54 GMT -5
Light, what are you saying? Are you saying what I think you're saying...
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Post by Lighthouse on Feb 21, 2008 22:00:31 GMT -5
Wait a minute. I want you to meet someone. **Walks into adjoining room and returns** Meet Joshua
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Post by coldfront06 on Feb 21, 2008 22:02:27 GMT -5
Hi Joshua...how are you little man? He's a cute kid Light! You and your man must be proud parents
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Post by Lighthouse on Feb 21, 2008 22:03:21 GMT -5
He's 14 months, Cold.
**looks away**
I'm a single parent.
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Post by coldfront06 on Feb 21, 2008 22:05:21 GMT -5
Light...just tell me what you are trying to say. Are you saying that he's mine? You never told me that you were pregnant before you left.
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Post by Lighthouse on Feb 21, 2008 22:09:11 GMT -5
Are you serious??? Cold, maybe I should refresh your memory. You left me to go back to Spring while I was pregnant. I went to the hospital and from what you were told "lost the baby." Well, Joshua didn't die during delivery. I told you, but you wouldn't listen, that Spring paid the doctor to have "accident" during the delivery. Praise God, my obgyn is my half brother Randall. So...to keep Joshua and I safe, he came up with the story that the baby died and that I would leave Hazerville shortly thereafter.
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Post by coldfront06 on Feb 21, 2008 22:11:35 GMT -5
Wow...so you're saying that the baby didn't really die? That I've had a son for the past 14 months that I didn't know about? So why tell me now...what has changed your mind?
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Post by Lighthouse on Feb 21, 2008 22:17:11 GMT -5
Yes...I'm sorry and I know you may think ill of me but I had to protect my child. He was my number one priority. He wasn't safe here.
I came back because he needs his father in his life. He's such a smart little boy. Or little man I should say. I've given him everything a child could ever want but I know he needs to be around his father.
I know this is a lot to put on you, but I couldn't have him here in Hazerville, so close to you, and not give you a chance to decide if you want to be in his life.
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Post by coldfront06 on Feb 21, 2008 22:21:40 GMT -5
This is alot to take in at once. I was shocked when I saw you, my ex back in town. Imagine how I feel now that I see you here with my son! You know that children are important to me. Don't feel insulted...but finding out I have a son after more than a year, I think I'd feel better about it after a paternity test. If he's indeed mine then I definitely want to be involved in his life. So why don't we set up a test, and while we wait on the results I can discuss all of this with my new wife.
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Post by IvyByDesign on Feb 21, 2008 22:23:35 GMT -5
*yawns*
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Post by Lighthouse on Feb 21, 2008 22:29:01 GMT -5
I completely agree. Just let me know what time you are available and we can do it. And by all means, bring your new wife. I'd feel more comfortable if she's involved. I think that will keep confusion down. And it may reassure you both that I'm not here to insert myself in your lives.
**places a call: Helga, can you come and get Joshua ready for bed**
Joshua, say good night.
**Joshua says good night to Cold and gives Light a kiss and leaves w/ his nanny for the adjoining room**
Well, Cold. Thanks again for coming.
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Post by coldfront06 on Feb 21, 2008 22:30:32 GMT -5
Well, thanks for telling me. Just call me when the time and everything is set. We'll work this out.
*Calls BeBe*
Honey, are you home? We need to talk about something big. I'm on the way now.
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Post by IvyByDesign on Feb 21, 2008 22:32:48 GMT -5
*BeBe answers the phone* Hello? Hi sweetie, hold on.
*BeBe pauses the pilates video* I'll see you soon. Yes, I e-love you too.
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Post by Lighthouse on Feb 21, 2008 22:35:01 GMT -5
**Light sends text to mystery man**
He's in the bed now. I'm on my way.
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Post by Ms. RedamnDickulous on Feb 22, 2008 16:47:09 GMT -5
^^^^ of course it was on VIBRATE! Are there any other settings? Git it Git it...
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Post by MochaD on Feb 23, 2008 0:15:06 GMT -5
Where the is chicken, there is Damie ...where there is KFC there is a HAPPY Damie ;D ;D
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Post by DamieQue™ on Feb 25, 2008 9:51:27 GMT -5
Ah grasshopper... I see you have discerned the key to e-life (and in some cases real life)
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Post by ReignMan19 on Feb 25, 2008 10:47:06 GMT -5
* wonders out of lurk mode to sit on couch*
This is getting good..
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Post by Nupey on Feb 26, 2008 8:23:47 GMT -5
*Text Damie*
Man that car is cool...I got it from...well lets just say I had to use a little muscle.....
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