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[ShimmeringSTAR]

Have you ever been in a situation (friendship or relationship) where trust played a major part? How did you handle it?


Have you ever stopped seeing someone and years or months down the line (when opportunity) presented itself went back into that relationship? Why or why not


Have you ever made a complete fool of yourself for love?


Do you practice the "all honesty" policy with your friends and partners?


Discuss....

[DamieQue™]

Mar 12, 2012 14:22:37 GMT -5 ShimmeringSTAR said:

Have you ever been in a situation (friendship or relationship) where trust played a major part? How did you handle it?

I would think trust would play a major part in EVERY true friendship or relationship. Has your experience been otherwise?

Have you ever stopped seeing someone and years or months down the line (when opportunity) presented itself went back into that relationship? Why or why not

Yep. Why? Because there was unfinished business. I've done it mmore than once too. Didn't work out in each instance, but for me it was the right thing to do to try.

Have you ever made a complete fool of yourself for love?

Yep. Twice. One time too many if you ask me. M'eh. You live and you learn. Maybe that's what initially made me think my Love button was broken

Do you practice the "all honesty" policy with your friends and partners?
Discuss....

Hell no. My experience is, people want to know the truth, as long as it's something they want to hear.

[ShimmeringSTAR]

I have major trust issues and Im reexamining all friendships and relationships. I find it hard to keep talking to someone who vomits fake.

[Chal™]

Have you ever been in a situation (friendship or relationship) where trust played a major part? How did you handle it?

Are we asking if there was full trust or a lack of trust? I must trust you in order to maintain a relationship or friendship with you. If it gets to where I'm questioning that trust, I try to talk it out, work it out, help fix what's wrong. If nothing can help remedy the situation, I leave.


Have you ever stopped seeing someone and years or months down the line (when opportunity) presented itself went back into that relationship? Why or why not

Yes. Only because our relationship ended due to things that were beyond our control. Sad to say, by then we were totally different people trying to bring back what was rather than working on what is and what could be.

Have you ever made a complete fool of yourself for love?

A complete fool? Hey, what can I say? Go big or go home.

Do you practice the "all honesty" policy with your friends and partners?

I don't volunteer information, but I will answer honestly if you ask me. If you really CAN'T handle the truth, don't ask me for it.

Discuss....

Discussed.

[DamieQue™]

Mar 12, 2012 16:20:47 GMT -5 ShimmeringSTAR said:

I have major trust issues and Im reexamining all friendships and relationships. I find it hard to keep talking to someone who vomits fake.

I think most people would have a problem with this...

...so what is the debate about why not just cut them loose? What's the catch?

[ShimmeringSTAR]

I have been letting them go as I see fit. Its years of what I thought to be friendship.


I also asked about going back because most people say they wouldnt go backwards in relationships.