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Post by Rare_Commodity on Mar 8, 2012 13:26:49 GMT -5
So about two weeks ago I interviewed for a job out of area. While waiting for # 1 to call back I received an email from #2 (same org/diff dept) that they were interested in interviewing me ( I am scheduled to interview tomorrow).
Monday # 1 called and offered me the job. I am in the process of negotiating a salary that includes relo or more $$. Well today I got another email that # 3 (same org/diff dept) wants to schedule me for an interview. Option # 2 and #3 both pay wayyy more money than option #1.
Dillemma
Do I hold out hoping, praying that I get an offer from # 2 or #3 which could be another 2-3 weeks or should I go ahead accept # 1 and gain the experience? I've talked to family and friends and most are saying hold out or don't move away period. My heart is leaning toward just accepting #1 since it is a guaranteed offer.
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Post by nyunupe on Mar 8, 2012 13:31:12 GMT -5
If you're young and single, move and gain the expereince. God will handle the rest.
I lived throughout the U.S on company relo's and it was the best experience I could ask for.
If you have kids....#2 and #3 might be viable options and stay close to family and friends.
Best wishes
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Post by DamieQue™ on Mar 8, 2012 13:33:23 GMT -5
You could use the fact that you have other potnetial offers on the table to negotiate a better salary with opportunity #1.
That's what I did when I changed jobs. Just some food for thought. Ultimately you gotta do what works for you, best of luck to you either way.
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Mar 8, 2012 13:33:32 GMT -5
Thanks! I am single no kids but super nervous. Yes it is still in TX but away from home and my family.
All 3 potential offers are at the same organization but differnt depts...about a 4.5 hours drive.
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Mar 8, 2012 13:34:52 GMT -5
You could use the fact that you have other potnetial offers on the table to negotiate a better salary with opportunity #1.
That's what I did when I changed jobs. Just some food for thought. Ultimately you gotta do what works for you, best of luck to you either way. Yeah but how will that fair if all the offers are at the same org? Its the same HR group just different generalist don't they know...?What I don't want to happen is negotiate too hard on # 1 and they just say eff it...or hold out for # 2 or #3 and don't get either then I miss 3 opportunities... |
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Post by DamieQue™ on Mar 8, 2012 13:40:51 GMT -5
You could use the fact that you have other potnetial offers on the table to negotiate a better salary with opportunity #1.
That's what I did when I changed jobs. Just some food for thought. Ultimately you gotta do what works for you, best of luck to you either way. Yeah but how will that fair if all the offers are at the same org? Its the same HR group just different generalist don't they know...?What I don't want to happen is negotiate too hard on # 1 and they just say eff it...or hold out for # 2 or #3 and don't get either then I miss 3 opportunities...
If you negotiate hard and they say "nevermind" it would seem (emphasis on "it would seem") that you have 2 spare tires in the trunk.
However if it would bring you more peace of mind just to have a confirmed job and confirmed income, then go for that. Small risk, small reward, and also potential for small loss. Big risk, big reward, but the potential for a big loss too. Pick the one you can live with. If you can live with leaving alot of money on the table, go with job 1. If you need that extra coin, take the risk. Just be comfortable with the consequences. |
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Mar 8, 2012 13:45:55 GMT -5
^^I'm not a big risk taker BUT option #2 and #3 are sweet deals $ wise. I'll sleep on it. I told them I would give them an answer next week. After my interview with # 2...
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Mar 12, 2012 16:11:14 GMT -5
That extra money looked lovely but I was being a little greedy. A Bird in the Hand is Better than Two in the Bush... took option #1 and ran with it! I gracefully bowed out of # 2 and #3 they were surprised I walked away.
I'm already packed and ready to fly the coup just need to find a place to stay.
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Apr 2, 2012 11:19:59 GMT -5
Option 1 officially starts on April 30th! Now on to moving...
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Jun 1, 2012 15:39:10 GMT -5
Shouldn't have accepted # 1, 2, or 3 this organization is backwards BUT I do feel like I am a big fish in a small pond so If I can hang tyte momentarily it will be a good look for my career!
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Post by nyunupe on Jun 1, 2012 17:17:19 GMT -5
Shouldn't have accepted # 1, 2, or 3 this organization is backwards BUT I do feel like I am a big fish in a small pond so If I can hang tyte momentarily it will be a good look for my career! So where did you relo? Making good money? |
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Post by ShimmeringSTAR on Jun 1, 2012 23:03:35 GMT -5
Awe...you don't like??
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Post by Rare_Commodity on Jun 4, 2012 15:43:14 GMT -5
Spurs country and money is cool with the COLA raise but I remain a flight risk so always looking for that next high.
No I don't like it BUT I have made a whole lotta connections in the process. My lease is up in 5 more months already thinking about my next relo lol.
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Post by nyunupe on Jun 5, 2012 18:08:00 GMT -5
Spurs country and money is cool with the COLA raise but I remain a flight risk so always looking for that next high. No I don't like it BUT I have made a whole lotta connections in the process. My lease is up in 5 more months already thinking about my next relo lol. damn, you sound like a gypsy! San Antonio, huh? I like SA. Clean, your dollar goes a little further in the real estate market..at least further than Houston or Dallas. I didn't find the women particularly attractive....the alumni greek scene was underdeveloped. lol @ "flight risk" |
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